re: key "fell" off key ring

Quoting KelseyLynn:" Ok so SO gets off work at 12:00 & he hadn't called me by 1:00 so I called him to see where he was & supposedly ... [snip!] ... hurts to know he didn't care at all to check on me.. Has ur key ever fell off ur key ring? What does this sound like to you?"

That sounds like BS sorry 
If you ever need a friend or mama advise I live like 30 away from you. You can PM me for my number  
 

<blockquote><b>Quoting Korean's &Ella's Mama &He:</b>" That sounds like BS sorry  If you ever need a friend or mama advise I live like 30 away from you. You can PM me for my number    "</blockquote>




Aw thanks  
Yeah I think today was my last straw its like he didnt even try. He hasmt came to the house or nothing.

<blockquote><b>Quoting KelseyLynn:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Korean's &Ella's Mama &He:</b>" That sounds like BS sorry  ... [snip!] ... Aw thanks   Yeah I think today was my last straw its like he didnt even try. He hasmt came to the house or nothing."</blockquote>




Kick him out.

<blockquote><b>Quoting KelseyLynn:</b>" Im pretty mucj done. He never came home last night. No call or nothing. Hasnt called all day. Basically ... [snip!] ... after he "lpst" his key he went a wall. So whether or not hes cheating he is VERY wrong fpr not coming home calling pr nothing."</blockquote>




You can only take so much and if his disrespect level is high enough that you feel you are done, make it very clear that you are done and why (still use the soft words? In the end it will piss him off that you aren't screaming). You also need to stick to it. Don't make it just a threat that you make and don't keep.

<blockquote><b>Quoting KelseyLynn:</b>" Im pretty mucj done. He never came home last night. No call or nothing. Hasnt called all day. Basically ... [snip!] ... after he "lpst" his key he went a wall. So whether or not hes cheating he is VERY wrong fpr not coming home calling pr nothing."</blockquote>



"Pretty much done?" No mama, be sure, and mean it. He disrespected the smurf out of you not coming home or calling. You have his baby inside you right? What an ass. And guess what...bet you a million bucks he's going to tell you he stayed with his parents last night. If he loved you he would have came home, or even called. Period point blank. Time to take out the trash.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Liam's Mama:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting KelseyLynn:</b>" Im pretty mucj done. He never came home last ... [snip!] ... parents last night. If he loved you he would have came home, or even called. Period point blank. Time to take out the trash."</blockquote>




Very much agree!!
You and the baby do not deserve to be treated like that!!

I left him.
It was hard. Idk whu it was hard considering he is treatinge wrong. I feel srupid cause im really hurting over it.. I just dont get it.
He finally had texted but then didnt respond or ever call his text said "we need to talk" we never did. He kept saying after that text "gp to sleep" 3 hours after he had texted and still hadnt called i just called and left him a vm telling him I didn't wanna dp this anymore. & that I cant dp it.
He has me so upset I almost smoked a cigarette (I didn't) & if I wasnt pregnant I probably would have done alot worse than smoking a cigarette. Its weird cause he was all I had.. like of course I got my daughter but I have no friends, no nothing. I depended on him and now im kinda lost. :/

<blockquote><b>Quoting KelseyLynn:</b>" I left him. It was hard. Idk whu it was hard considering he is treatinge wrong. I feel srupid cause ... [snip!] ... was all I had.. like of course I got my daughter but I have no friends, no nothing. I depended on him and now im kinda lost. :/"</blockquote>




I think this is a lesson learned. Life should be a balance, not an obsession. He's going to beg for you back, but you need to remain strong and continue to think with your head.

<blockquote><b>Quoting KelseyLynn:</b>" I left him. It was hard. Idk whu it was hard considering he is treatinge wrong. I feel srupid cause ... [snip!] ... was all I had.. like of course I got my daughter but I have no friends, no nothing. I depended on him and now im kinda lost. :/"</blockquote>




That is the best thing you could do for yourself and your unborn baby, just look at it as his loss not yours! Before the baby is born, go out have fun and meet new people, I'm sure you could always make new friends even on here, just look for people that are in your area and talk to them and go hang out, you will feel a lot better

So proud of you! He will BEG and PLEAD for you to take him back, watch. But mark my words...if you do he'll do this same thing again. Maybe next week, next month, or next year. It will happen. What did he want to talk about?

Quoting KelseyLynn:" I left him. It was hard. Idk whu it was hard considering he is treatinge wrong. I feel srupid cause ... [snip!] ... was all I had.. like of course I got my daughter but I have no friends, no nothing. I depended on him and now im kinda lost. :/"

I'm sorry mama but he obviously doesn't give one smurf about you or your baby. It's okay to be sad and hurt, don't feel stupid at all! At least you got the best part of him and that's your daughter.   Please don't take him back because this was wrong. I believe in 2nd chances but it seems you've given him more than he deserved soo his loss.   And definately take this time for yourself before the baby comes to go out, meet new people and just have fun. Stress goes to the baby, happy baby = happy mama. But if you ever need to talk or anything I'm here, I've been through that dumb smurf and stuck around wayyy too long...it definitely messed with my head so don't let him work you like that. You and your baby deserve better than him, don't settle for less. *Hugs*

Thanks ladies  
I woke up feeling "okay" .
Im not sure what je wanted to talk about he mever called (figures) . I figure it will hurt for a bit but at least I know whats goong on.. im not expecting someone to be there who won't be.. cause that hurts worse.
I got my daughter & mommy so I'll survive.
This too shall pass

Quoting KelseyLynn:" Thanks ladies   I woke up feeling "okay" . Im not sure what je wanted to talk about he mever called ... [snip!] ... someone to be there who won't be.. cause that hurts worse. I got my daughter & mommy so I'll survive. This too shall pass"

You got it mama  

Even if it did fall off... why wouldn't he just call you or knock on the door :/

Quoting Red Bottom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting KelseyLynn:</b>" I left him. It was hard. Idk whu it was hard ... [snip!] ... balance, not an obsession. He's going to beg for you back, but you need to remain strong and continue to think with your head."