re: Soap vaginal question

Quoting Jennybananna:" Oh no thats to much and can cause infection. She should be respecting your wishes as their parent. the ... [snip!] ... it with soap is during the heavy days of my period and after anal sex. I use the summers eve wash though and tons of rinsing. "

Sometimes I feel like my back is up against the wall, because i'm never taken seriously.... it really irritates me.... she thinks it's "gross"...to not use soap up and around... but I have problems with PH, doesn't take much to throw it out of whack.... I don't want my girls to have the same problems.

Quoting Baby_Majick:" Sometimes I feel like my back is up against the wall, because i'm never taken seriously.... it really ... [snip!] ... but I have problems with PH, doesn't take much to throw it out of whack.... I don't want my girls to have the same problems."

Can you just tell her not to bathe them?

Quoting Jennybananna:" Can you just tell her not to bathe them? "

I'm going to have to tell her i'm going to do it from now on... My 8 year old can take a shower just fine by herself. It's my 5 and 4 year old.... that I don't want being forced to wash a certain way. I want them clean, yes... but there is no need to use soap in that area (thats just my opinion, and thats what I been told by drs)

Quoting Baby_Majick:" I'm going to have to tell her i'm going to do it from now on... My 8 year old can take a shower just ... [snip!] ... them clean, yes... but there is no need to use soap in that area (thats just my opinion, and thats what I been told by drs)"

They are you children and you have every right to bathe them how you see fit. I clean around the vagina with soap but the inside is only with water.

Quoting Jennybananna:" They are you children and you have every right to bathe them how you see fit. I clean around the vagina with soap but the inside is only with water."

This.

Do yall live with them?

If not, just give them baths before they go over there, that way, she won't try to bath them again.

summers eve wash.... and on LO i use a tiny bit of baby soap.