It is hard to say goodbye

i am going to have to go in for a d&c tomorrow morning there is no heartbeat this week i am so depressed does it get any better

Better? That's a relative term. Easier? Yes. The sadness is bad at first, but it does lessen over time. You will always feel sadness, but it won't always be to the degree you are feeling right now.

I'm sorry for your loss mama, thoughts your way...

I am so sorry for your loss.

So so sorry for your loss. I had a miscarriage in December of 09 and my d&c in January. It was hard and still is to this day even though I am currently pregnant. I think about it all the time. Asking myself was it my fault, what did I do wrong? It takes time but no one ever fully gets over a lost like that.

yeah my doc said i could just wait for a miscarriage but it could be a few weeks and by then you will need a d&c so i figure just get the d&c and get it over with

Yeah I had no signs of miscarriage. No pain, no bleeding nothing so that's y I got a d&c. I will be praying for u.