Lazy???

Earlier today i walked to the supermarket from my house which is about 45 mins away i walked with my partner and i started to get really sore at the very bottom of my stomach is was like pains and cramps is this normal by the time we got home from the supermarket we got a taxi because there was a lot of shopping i was so sore and tired i feel asleep for an hour and a half and when i woke up my partner told me i was becoming very lazy   I was really annoyed and said well i am 32 weeks pregnant obviously i am going to get tired i was quite annoyed by what he had said and he apologized a short while later i just wish he could understand how much this pregnancy is taking it out of me  

I would kill my SO if he ever said that. Obviously you are pregnant so your body is going to ache. Jerk

That sucks your partner wasn't very understanding. A 45 minute walk would be an achievement for me!!! I would end up spending the whole afternoon in bed sleeping it off especially if I did shopping after the walk. That is with being 17 weeks pregnant, let alone 32 weeks. I have afternoon naps on days where I haven't done anything but wake up with the kids and sort them out of a morning. Growing a baby is a tough job!!! I just wish I was as active as I was with my first. Fourth time around is really taking its toll.

Quoting bloopbloop♥™:" I would kill my SO if he ever said that. Obviously you are pregnant so your body is going to ache. Jerk"

This! And you did a lot of walking also. That is not lazy.

Quoting bloopbloop♥™:" I would kill my SO if he ever said that. Obviously you are pregnant so your body is going to ache. Jerk"

Yeah i thought it was a bit harsh too i wasn't impressed

<blockquote><b>Quoting bloopbloop♥™:</b>" I would kill my SO if he ever said that. Obviously you are pregnant so your body is going to ache. Jerk"</blockquote>




I agree.

Oh and remember walking is exercise. So if you are not used to walking that distance then it will cause aches and stuff whilst pregnant. Literally I can be doubled over if I walk for too long. I try to keep shopping trips as short as possible.

Quoting Due 12th March  :" Yeah i thought it was a bit harsh too i wasn't impressed"

HELL even going grocery shopping gets me achy and tired at times..  

Quoting Stef ♥Gru17weeks:" That sucks your partner wasn't very understanding. A 45 minute walk would be an achievement for me!!! ... [snip!] ... a baby is a tough job!!! I just wish I was as active as I was with my first. Fourth time around is really taking its toll."

I wish he would be more understanding   im all for trying to keep active as much as i can during pregnancy but its getting harder, yeah it definitely is a tough job im sure your exhausted i couldnt imagine being pregnant and having older children to look after

Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" This! And you did a lot of walking also. That is not lazy. "

True  

Quoting Stef ♥Gru17weeks:" Oh and remember walking is exercise. So if you are not used to walking that distance then it will cause ... [snip!] ... whilst pregnant. Literally I can be doubled over if I walk for too long. I try to keep shopping trips as short as possible."

I dont mind walking to the supermarket as long as I can go my own pace but no way could i walk back as its all up hill on the way back i hate shopping trips lol

Quoting bloopbloop♥™:" HELL even going grocery shopping gets me achy and tired at times..  "

yeah me too lol just depends on what ive been doing during the day

<blockquote><b>Quoting Due 12th March  :</b>" I wish he would be more understanding   im all for trying to keep active as much as i can during pregnancy ... [snip!] ... it definitely is a tough job im sure your exhausted i couldnt imagine being pregnant and having older children to look after"</blockquote>



Men are ignorant. They won't understand how much hard work it is to be pregnant. Mine are 7,5 & 3. Sometimes I wish they were in their teens so I could have more me time and not have to do the school run. 5 minute walk up that hill several times a day makes me want an 8 hour nap! If only I could.

I couldn't imagine my DH saying something like that to me when I was pregnant. The pregnancy hormones made me even more of a bitch than usual, so my head probably would've exploded.