"NO"-Peeing

My daughter is 2, will be 3 in March. She has developed a serious attitude and lashes out. If me or my hubby tell her no, she will pee her pants on purpose..if she is told no at daycare she does the same thing. Has anyone else dealt with this? How do we get passed this?

You could try not changing her right away

Quoting Jude ♥ JGL:" You could try not changing her right away"

 

Now I don't have any experience in this, but I've heard some parents taking the "You made your bed, now lay in it" approach, and I've heard it works.

She is also getting violent. I just don't know what to do anymore? The daycare tells me she is autistic. I think they should not be diagnosing anyone.

Quoting ~*ARI*~:" She is also getting violent. I just don't know what to do anymore? The daycare tells me she is autistic. I think they should not be diagnosing anyone. "

Then I would bring her to a doctor or a therapist, just to see if she has some other problem... if this is the only problem though I wouldn't just slap autism on her. She might have anger management problems.

Yeah, the daycare has no clue what they're talking about. They're not doctors, and they can't diagnose her.