re: Vent: After being in denial so long..

Quoting Kayleigh-louise Moran:" I'm against abortion apart from for example if the girl was under 16 or it was a rape case, but in this ... [snip!] ... rape case, but in this case this is 1 I would support a abortion.Also o.p why wasn't you on contraception before this happened?"

You are pro choice. You cant say Im pro life UNLESS... blah blah blah.. You are pro choice.

Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" You are pro choice. You cant say Im pro life UNLESS... blah blah blah.. You are pro choice. "

You are pro-choice yes/So if a 10 year old girl got raped and ended up pregnant, it would be wrong for her to get abortion?

Quoting Kayleigh-louise Moran:" You are pro-choice yes/So if a 10 year old girl got raped and ended up pregnant, it would be wrong for her to get abortion?"

How does that make any sense?

YES I would have my daughter get an abortion.

What Im saying is you cant say Im not for abortion unless [for whatever reason].... and think its pro life. when its really pro choice.

Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" How does that make any sense? YES I would have my daughter get an abortion. What Im saying is you ... [snip!] ... is you cant say Im not for abortion unless [for whatever reason].... and think its pro life. when its really pro choice. "

I do not usually support abortion unless there is a good enough reason and it would be in the child's best interest, like it is now.

Quoting Kayleigh-louise Moran:" I do not usually support abortion unless there is a good enough reason and it would be in the child's best interest, like it is now."

That doesn't make any sense what might be a good enough reason for me may not meet your qualifications but it's my life and I decide. This girl has other options, I do not see abortion as the best way. You are not pro choice or pro life you are pro your opinion

Quoting FutureMRSmama:" That doesn't make any sense what might be a good enough reason for me may not meet your qualifications ... [snip!] ... This girl has other options, I do not see abortion as the best way. You are not pro choice or pro life you are pro your opinion"

It's in the baby's best interest and her current children's.She would not be able to support 4 children on a full time job, unless it's a very good paid job, her children would go without.Plus how would she be able to work or afford a babysitter if she's paying for 1 for 4 children?It's in the baby's and current children's interest.Enough said.

Quoting FutureMRSmama:" What is dumb is the advice you are giving her, irresponsible yes there is a good choice, but their are other options."

Alright. Im giving HER my opinion and advice, not to you- I dont care what you think.

Im glad you think being a 19 year old child with 4 children and no education is such a normal, non problematic situation.

luckily that is completely out of the ordinary where im from, and im happy to say i dont know anyone as completely stupid, disgusting, loose, and irresponsible as the original poster.

Quoting shes*almost*one!:" Alright. Im giving HER my opinion and advice, not to you- I dont care what you think. Im glad you think ... [snip!] ... and im happy to say i dont know anyone as completely stupid, disgusting, loose, and irresponsible as the original poster. "

So true  

Quoting Kayleigh-louise Moran:" You are pro-choice yes/So if a 10 year old girl got raped and ended up pregnant, it would be wrong for her to get abortion?"

That doesnt make sense.

Are you all right?

Quoting shes*almost*one!:" That doesnt make sense. Are you all right?"

Yes, I'm fine thank you.

Quoting Kayleigh-louise Moran:" I do not usually support abortion unless there is a good enough reason and it would be in the child's best interest, like it is now."

what "child" -- the mother, or the unfortunate fetus

Quoting Kayleigh-louise Moran:" It's in the baby's best interest and her current children's.She would not be able to support 4 children ... [snip!] ... or afford a babysitter if she's paying for 1 for 4 children?It's in the baby's and current children's interest.Enough said."

Adoption is an option, and if she wants to she really could care for 4 kids, she would need help but it is possible, and let's not forget the men involved could legally have to contribute as well. So not only her full time job would keep her afloat. Their are options and ways for anyone who wants it. I was 19 when I had my son, still in high school. A NIGHT program I got a half of a diploma, had my son, Bought a house by 24, own a beautiful home in the suburbs, did so well at community that I have scholarships to and Ivy league school, and now am going to work full time with a full time college schedule. Anything can be done. Having my child young didnt effect me that badly.

Quoting FutureMRSmama:" Adoption is an option, and if she wants to she really could care for 4 kids, she would need help but ... [snip!] ... to work full time with a full time college schedule. Anything can be done. Having my child young didnt effect me that badly."

I agree, I'm having my first and I'm only 19.But 4 children/How long will it be before she has her 5th, 6th?

Quoting shes*almost*one!:" what "child" -- the mother, or the unfortunate fetus"

Aha   both i think lol.

Quoting FutureMRSmama:" Adoption is an option, and if she wants to she really could care for 4 kids, she would need help but ... [snip!] ... to work full time with a full time college schedule. Anything can be done. Having my child young didnt effect me that badly."

You had ONE.. not 4....