Quoting K.Lynn09:" Actually yes we have started buying things we know we will need, not that it is any of your business. ... [snip!] ... of sites getting information about it, and am a member of a few others. I have just as much right to be on this site as you do."So your not pregnant or with a child but your buying baby things????Wow...it just got 100x wierder...yikes
Quoting K.Lynn09:" How is that weird? I am attempting to have a child. Since I know it will be happening soon I have grabbed ... [snip!] ... months to get everything I need? Because its easier to start buying a head of time and isn't as much of a financial "strain"?"Right, so you ''know'' your going to have a baby in the next few months?who's told you this?/a physhic?a doctor?You cant predict the future, you could be trying and buying all your life and not have one.
Quoting Kayleigh-louise Moran:" I'm sorry but how can you offer your advice when you dont have children or not pregnant?And as for buying ... [snip!] ... a baby and carry a baby healthly?You'r going round buying baby things for something that doesnt even exist...that's crazy!!"
Quoting K.Lynn09:" Because I had a medical eval done to check that very thing before we started TTC. To make sure I was healthy enough to support a growing baby and to make sure everything is working as it should. "Yes, but you don't actually KNOW that your going to have a baby in the next few months.Some people try all there life with no actual problems down there but never get pregnant...I'm just saying its stupid buying things for something that doesn't and might not ever exist.
Quoting Kayleigh-louise Moran:" Yes, but you don't actually KNOW that your going to have a baby in the next few months.Some people try ... [snip!] ... there but never get pregnant...I'm just saying its stupid buying things for something that doesn't and might not ever exist."
Quoting Kayleigh-louise Moran:" Sweetie you cant go round giving advice on pregnancy's when your not pregnant, or have had children.You're ... [snip!] ... a difference beetween smurfing someone and actual being a mummy or mummy too be.You are neither. Just smurfing without a condom."
Quoting K.Lynn09:" Eventually somehow whether it be naturally or through adoption I will have children. And if I don't ... [snip!] ... the blankets and nursing cloths to. I haven't bought anything expensive, as I stated before. Just a few things on clearance. "It's a bit wierd for a women who doesn't have any children or who isn't pregnant too go out buying items for children, but not for children.It's strange.Not normal.Also, not everyone can adopt, and if you did, you cant't pick for sure wheather you want a cute little baby or grumpy teenager.They don't just give babies away you know!!!
Quoting K.Lynn09:" As far as I am concerned I'm a better mummy than you are right now because I have the sense to plan ... [snip!] ... from the father's DNA. I was 18 it was unplanned. I am with someone different now, who I can actually see being a good father."OMG how can you say you'r a better mummy when you'r NOT a mummy!You're smurfing, theres a difference.I have a baby on the way who I've bonded with, felt moving and kicking, saw her heartbeat and been out and baught stuff for.YOU ARE NOT A MUMMY!!1You have no children so please state how are you a better mummy then me???!!And lol just becuase I didn't go out and buy things before my baby was even concieved...doesn't meen I'm a bad mother!To be honest, I dont know anyone who's been out and baught items intended for a child when they have no children unless it's intended for a neice/nephew/cousin etc.
Quoting Kayleigh-louise Moran:" It's a bit wierd for a women who doesn't have any children or who isn't pregnant too go out buying items ... [snip!] ... you cant't pick for sure wheather you want a cute little baby or grumpy teenager.They don't just give babies away you know!!!"
Quoting K.Lynn09:" Yes I am well aware of this fact. Even then I could pass them on for when my adopted children had children. ... [snip!] ... my adopted children had children. "I got these when your father and I started trying for a baby..." sentimental value to them. "