Is it my fault?

Miscarried in April with my bay at 9 weeks and fell pregnant again in august, I felt beyond guilty and anxious at this to the point I couldnt see myself going through with the pregnancy (soon realised I would be killing a much anticipated baby) but as I go on in my pregnancy I am feeling worse and worse about my lost baby, almost as though I had some responsibility in the death of my baby does anyone have any tips tostopme feeling like this?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Chelsey Fox:</b>" Miscarried in April with my bay at 9 weeks and fell pregnant again in august, I felt beyond guilty and ... [snip!] ... baby, almost as though I had some responsibility in the death of my baby does anyone have any tips tostopme feeling like this?"</blockquote>


I used to feel like that. But then when my daughter was born slowly I just stopped thinking about it every day until now I hardly ever do. If I had had that baby I wouldn't have had my daughter and she is perfect. I promise you, I didn't see it that way till she was about 8 weeks old.

im so sorry for your loss, but you shouldnt be feeling guilty at all. it wasnt your fault. you should try to focus this pregnancy and enjoy it because it'll be over soon and you don't want to feel like you missed out on the joyful parts of being pregnant.

It didn't help that I had my 12 week scan on the day my angel baby was due.