re: How to resist the urge to put out?

Quoting Queen Aries Baby:" lol im glad im not theonly one who randomly pops sex into their head"

nope its not just you lol i have a hard time getting to know men because of this, i think i use sex as a defense mechanism. once we have sex, thats it im not interested in talking to u about anything but sex lol.

Quoting Beanie's Breeder:" nope its not just you lol i have a hard time getting to know men because of this, i think i use sex ... [snip!] ... i use sex as a defense mechanism. once we have sex, thats it im not interested in talking to u about anything but sex lol."

if we are too busy having sex i dont have to get to know them. i just keep like a reg fwb the guy i was just w ive been hanging out w almost a yr now.

Quoting Stfu Shirley:" I am not religious at all but there's something from the bible I have always dearly loved, "Don’t give ... [snip!] ... pieces." In other words, as I prefer to interpret it, keep your treasures to yourself until you're sure the guy isn't a pig."

That's what I've always used too!   It's a great verse

Don't put yourself in a place where it's possible. Stay in public areas, assuming your not a freaky freaky freak lol and maybe let the guy understand that's not what you want right now

<blockquote><b>Quoting Queen Aries Baby:</b>" thats a very good golden rule. ive never followed any rules just did what i wanted and was safe about it, time for a change"</blockquote>




Be a girl worth keeping around.

Quoting Red Bottom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Queen Aries Baby:</b>" thats a very good golden rule. ive never ... [snip!] ... rules just did what i wanted and was safe about it, time for a change"</blockquote> Be a girl worth keeping around."

this is what i need to keep as a motto! thanks!

Quoting Rydicule91:" Don't put yourself in a place where it's possible. Stay in public areas, assuming your not a freaky freaky freak lol and maybe let the guy understand that's not what you want right now"

he gets it they all do its more so me im always tempted but im doing good. keeping away from private spots and low light area dates for now