Quoting That Girl.:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Ellie.:</b>" 1. He needs to leave personal business off of social ... [snip!] ... been such a insensitive. smurf since I had his kids. I constantly tell him things need to change. But he takes it as a joke."
It may help, or it may not. My hope is that by spending more time focusing on each other rather than a computer, it may help to eliminate issues and have him remember why you guys fell in love. Maybe take an hour each evening without technology. Play a board game, talk about stuff, etc. Keep it lighthearted though. No anger, no bitching, no arguing. Just reconnect. Save talking about your issues until after that hour is up. I know it's hard with a new baby though.