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I would let him see it, it is just an ultrasound. It is his kid too regardless of how he has acted.

Wouldn't bother with his ass unless he asked for the stuff honestly. My sperm donor was like that, claimed it was not his, fought me the entire time. Went to one appointment, the first ultrasound. Glanced at it and just went "ok". She is 12 now and he has still never laid eyes on her. She's better off without him.

No I would not. He could start making an effort and ce to appointments with me and I might show it to him. But I wouldn't make him a copy.

This kid's dad wasn't really involved while we were together, and he left me 2 months ago and hasn't looked back. I still send him every u/s pic and he could come to the appointments if he didn't want to bring along his new gf - the chick he cheated on me with.

I'm make him a copy of it for sure. Whether or not I like him has little bearing on him being a father, and I'd want to do whatever possible to increase the odds that he would have a good relationship with his kids. If he is showing interest, it's not a big deal to give him a copy of an ultrasound. Just seems petty not to.

Quoting she nan igans:" I'm make him a copy of it for sure. Whether or not I like him has little bearing on him being a father, ... [snip!] ... with his kids. If he is showing interest, it's not a big deal to give him a copy of an ultrasound. Just seems petty not to."

I agree.

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Quoting lilmzzgreeneyez *NMOA*:" oh just an FYI i dont have a dvd burner so I personally cannot make a copy. he doesnt either. so i dont ... [snip!] ... and im not giving him my only copy to go "make his own copy" somewhere. and i dont have the money to go do it myself."

Do you have a physical copy, like a picture? You can get that scanned on a copy machine, most libraries will have that.

Quoting lilmzzgreeneyez *NMOA*:" oh just an FYI i dont have a dvd burner so I personally cannot make a copy. he doesnt either. so i dont ... [snip!] ... and im not giving him my only copy to go "make his own copy" somewhere. and i dont have the money to go do it myself."

Then have him over & show it to him at your place?

I would... why punish him? This is his future child too. I know you guys didnt work out and he was a dick, but if he has thought about it, made a mistake and shows an interest, I would let him.

Quoting lilmzzgreeneyez *NMOA*:" oh just an FYI i dont have a dvd burner so I personally cannot make a copy. he doesnt either. so i dont ... [snip!] ... and im not giving him my only copy to go "make his own copy" somewhere. and i dont have the money to go do it myself."

Download onto your computer and upload to photobucket maybe?

Quoting she nan igans:" I'm make him a copy of it for sure. Whether or not I like him has little bearing on him being a father, ... [snip!] ... with his kids. If he is showing interest, it's not a big deal to give him a copy of an ultrasound. Just seems petty not to."

  

I sent mine pictures now he hates me.

Quoting Click Me Click Me!!!:" I sent mine pictures now he hates me."

Uhmm...ok then.