Quoting Mulisha_Tink:" That's where I am at though. Do I work through it for my son? or is there really no coming back from something like that?"
You absolutely DO NOT stay for your son. That is the dumbest excuse, and I hate hearing it.
Would you rather your son grow up thinking it's okay to abuse his spouse? To grow up seeing you miserable, and mommy and daddy fighting all the time?
Or would you rather have your son grow up in a loving household with someone who isn't his bio father?
Fathers don't have to be blood.