Quoting Katie♥'sherHippo:" We have been fighting for going on three weeks now and I've been repeating myself and him basically ... [snip!] ... to respond. I'm not down with this. I feel like I'm talking to my mum's boyfriend and he's not a man I want to be around."
did you guys have fights before? communication can be tricky with a man sometimes. SO and i butt heads at least once a day, but we love each other and it shows. insecurities from previous relationships randomly sneak up on us (we're both trying to work through them) and place insecurities in our relationship sometimes. i know it doesn't sound like a fairy tale, but he's my best friend and the person i know i couldn't live without.
do you feel that way about your SO? is he your best friend? are you excited to see him every day? i think you guys need to figure out a way to communicate more effectively and get your feelings across without the other thinking of what they are going to say next before the other person is finished.