Another one of these..

Ok ladies I'm going to try to make a long story short, bear with me. SO and I have been TTc since Nov. We are having our wedding ceremony on the 17th. I will be 11 DPO. I am fighting myself, should I test then or wait for the 20. Part of me says I will be so pre occupied on the 17 just to do it. The other part is SO afraid. My sister who is TNTC just told me she is pregnant. I feel so ugh! What would you ladies do?

Ok, so this is what I would do. .. lol.. I would pee on a stick on both days. I can't handle not knowing something like that. I wouldn't necessarily recommend doing that. If you do test, try to keep in mind that it's only been a couple of months of TTC. I wouldn't get too worked up about it unless it's positive of course.