Quoting Gavin's Mommyyy:" Its easier said then done... its been a battle for so long that i dont know if its worth it anymore... I sometimes feel like we jsut arent right for each other, but walking away is so hard for me."
Everything is easier said than done. It's a cop out to say that. I've BTDT & we are together 20 yrs now. You either put the work in to get it back on track or you walk away without giving it a real shot. The fact is, if you won't go get some actual help, then you aren't really invested in making it work. Chasing your tail while enduring bad communication, bad patterns you two have established & stressful interactions is NOT the same thing as working
on the relationship. It is unnecessary pain & frustration for everyone...and that is all it is.