:UPDATE: -Custody anxiety-

If you need to be informed to the prior topic that I'm updating for the subject is "I need perspective from older mommas"

PLEASE DON'T QUOTE.


So i have BASICALLY signed over temporary rights of my daughter to her great grandmother. Court is on Tuesday for the actual documentation to be put in place. I am getting my stuff together already, looking for a job, getting a car, and finding a place as my dad is evicting me at the end of January. I am already working so hard and getting so much together for my life to start i am proud. I haven't seen my sweet DD since the 5th, and it is absolutely killing me. I know it's for good reasons, so I can provide for her but this is so hard. I am getting her on Friday for the first time since the 5th and i am feeling a lot of anxiety about it. I am scared she won't want to come home for me, that she will act terrible for me, and mostly that she wont remember me...

I'm glad you're thinking ahead and trying to get things together already. You're doing an amazing thing by wanting to be able to support her, and doing what you need to do to be able to do that.

I'm sure she's missed you, just play with her, and enjoy your time with her.

Good luck with everything!