Quoting Supafly★:" So I would've have just said something like - okay, my answer went from maybe not to definitely not. Have fun. "
Quoting Snotface♫[usmc]:" Yeah, I said "definitely no then." She tried apologizing. I just think she could have gone about it in a better way. "
Quoting Supafly★:" It kind of depends on how she said it. If it was on FB, that's rude in itself because she should have the decency to call. If she actually did call, it depends on her tone of voice and all that."
Quoting Elliot Grace's Mama:" She sounds like a typical 19 year old with no experience in those situations, you know? You learn those kinda of etiquettes as you mature and get experience..clearly she doesn't have much of either"Exactly. That's why I didn't say anything back other than I wasn't going to go out of state for a wedding and leave my son for it.
Quoting Snotface♫[usmc]:" Nope, it was on FB. "
Quoting Supafly★:" Ugh. Well she is 19. Not that it's an excuse but.....at least you didn't get sucked into going to the wedding lol. "
Quoting Snotface♫[usmc]:" Yeah, I'm not going to go out of my way and spend an ass load of money to go to a weeding out of state. I thought the bride and groom are supposed to pay for guests to fly in if it's out of state? "
Quoting Supafly★:" I'm not sure. My brother had his wedding in CT and didn't pay squat for anything. But if someone couldn't ... [snip!] ... But if someone couldn't make it he didn't make a big deal about it. I didn't bother with any of that crap, I eloped lol."
Quoting *Drooling*:" pet peeve #3 when it comes to weddings, needing to know the RSVP before you even get an invite or have ... [snip!] ... smurfy is she is saying it to you on FB and not the invitation they sent out. I'd feel like she was targeting me or something."
Quoting Raptor Jesus:" Feh. She could've gone about that in a MUCH nicer way. Besides, screw their dumb asses "