Pissed off, ugh!!!!!

My daughters dad basically said he wants nothing to do with our daughters because I'm in another relationship and he doesn't want to ruin "y'alls happy family" (his words). WTF really???!!!!!! It's not my fault you couldn't be faithful and I left you and now that I'm with someone else you're being an smurf! That really makes me mad. I plan on marrying the person I'm with and we have a baby on the way but it doesn't change the fact that they have a dad and it's not my SOs job to be their dad. I mean, he loves my kids and treats them as they were his, BUT it's not fair to them that their dad is acting like this. They always ask me why daddy doesn't call them or come see them. I've never been the type of woman to bad talk my daughters dad to them (maybe to other people but not to them) so what am I supposed to tell them? It really hurts my heart to see my kids hurt. I try to explain to him how this is affecting them, but I don't think he cares. Ugh!

I was just brutally honest with my daughter lol "Your dad's a dick, I'm sorry."

He's being an immature little smurf. Ask him what he knows about a happy family when he was so terrible at it? ;) And tell him to stop being such a big baby and grow the smurf up, he's a father, he should be acting like a man  

<blockquote><b>Quoting Unique Mama:</b>" I was just brutally honest with my daughter lol "Your dad's a dick, I'm sorry." He's being an immature ... [snip!] ... at it? ;) And tell him to stop being such a big baby and grow the smurf up, he's a father, he should be acting like a man  "</blockquote>




Lol you're so right!!!!! Ugh.