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Quoting Angela [Ms. Kathy Fan]:" No, because I was in it, and I am miserable piece of crap!!!!!!!!!!"

You're a "miserable piece of crap" because you allow yourself to bask in it. No one "made you" into anything. You allowed yourself to become who you are. And with this attitude, you're not giving your child the choice to become who she has the potential to be. You're setting her up to feel like her mommy refused to acknowledge that she needed help and wouldn't allow her to get it. Try being THAT kind of miserable.

You need a lot of therapy, and I would suggest getting it immediately for the sake of your mental health and the health of your child.

Quoting Angela [Ms. Kathy Fan]:" I hope so, too. I hate boys."

You need to fix yourself, learn to love yourself, before you choose to have children. That isn't a judgmental point - that is common sense. You can't truly love someone else until you learn to love even one aspect of yourself.

Quoting Angela [Ms. Kathy Fan]:" No, because I was in it, and I am miserable piece of crap!!!!!!!!!!"

so thats you not your kid

Quoting Angela [Ms. Kathy Fan]:" I hope so, too. I hate boys."

For the sake of your future child, get a LOT of therapy before you ever think about having children.

<blockquote><b>Quoting A❤T=P+[It's a Girl:</b>" yay! More craziness."</blockquote>


I pictured u with Pom poms  

<blockquote><b>Quoting Angela [Ms. Kathy Fan]:</b>" No, because I was in it, and I am miserable piece of crap!!!!!!!!!!"</blockquote>

Lmao!!! Wow I'm totally gonna go find a peer reviewed academic article tat says research states special Ed makes everyone a miserable piece of smurf. *runs off to proquest*

Quoting Emily Dickinson:" I can see where she is coming from in the sense that she went through those things and they are an attribute ... [snip!] ... While it doesn't make sense to the rest of us - as it shouldn't - she is finding a causal relationship where there is none."

I have had a pretty tough life....to say the least....I chose to use those experiences to educate myself on every single thing about them, so that I could better understand other people, and not make those mistakes in my future. I choose not to be miserable. She's complacent in her misery. She's choosing it. She needs serious medical attention.

Bitch was not the first word I thought when I read this  


My life has been terrible as well. I did speech therapy. I didn't have a bad experience it and I've never had a stutter since. Not all special ed and speech therapy is terrible. The great thing about being a parent is you can find GOOD education for your children, you can pick it yourself.

I've also had my life altered forever because I was a pedestrian in a drunk driving accident.

I help people every chance I get. You are who you let yourself be.

If you feel that way I would suggest getting your tubes tied and adopting a girl, you can not guarantee what sex your child will be and why would you risk having a boy that you would apparently hate and mistreat?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Emily Dickinson:</b>" I can see where she is coming from in the sense that she went through those things and they are an attribute ... [snip!] ... While it doesn't make sense to the rest of us - as it shouldn't - she is finding a causal relationship where there is none."</blockquote>

Right. It's like stretching to find an answer to her unhappiness. But it doesn't make it right. She needs to be in therapy or something.

Quoting Red Bottom:" You're a "miserable piece of crap" because you allow yourself to bask in it. No one "made you" into ... [snip!] ... a lot of therapy, and I would suggest getting it immediately for the sake of your mental health and the health of your child. "

I don't have time for that crap.

Quoting Red Bottom:" You're a "miserable piece of crap" because you allow yourself to bask in it. No one "made you" into ... [snip!] ... a lot of therapy, and I would suggest getting it immediately for the sake of your mental health and the health of your child. "

If I were a dog I would hump your leg.

Just saying.

Quoting lolajessup:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Emily Dickinson:</b>" I can see where she is coming from in ... [snip!] ... like stretching to find an answer to her unhappiness. But it doesn't make it right. She needs to be in therapy or something."

According to her many posts, she is.
Her mother is her guardian because of a brain injury or something.

Quoting lolajessup:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Emily Dickinson:</b>" I can see where she is coming from in ... [snip!] ... like stretching to find an answer to her unhappiness. But it doesn't make it right. She needs to be in therapy or something."

Once again. I don't have time for that.

Quoting Angela [Ms. Kathy Fan]:" I don't have time for that crap."

You catch more flies with honey and not vinegar.