I need help

My kids are driving me nuts and I feel like a terrible parent because I seriously have a strong urge to spank or beat them almost every day. They tear everything up. Make huge messes and don't listen when I try to get them to help. It takes me like two hrs to get them (mostly my son) to bed every night. My son is screaming and kicking the door right now. I just want him to go to bed so I can! I have to get up early to take them to daycare which my son hates. I work there so they just started and my son hates it. He cries 90 percent of the day there and I feel like their behavior has gotten worse since daycare...I'm going crazy. I like seriously hate my son right now. Hes such a brat and I feel pissed and depressed and ugh  

Quoting *Momlette*:" My kids are driving me nuts and I feel like a terrible parent because I seriously have a strong urge ... [snip!] ... daycare...I'm going crazy. I like seriously hate my son right now. Hes such a brat and I feel pissed and depressed and ugh  "

Sorry hun. Is it possible you have PPD from the twins?

<blockquote><b>Quoting We made a BabyBumpBelly:</b>" Sorry hun. Is it possible you have PPD from the twins?"</blockquote>




I probably do a little...I did after having my son  

I just feel so angry towards them. I feel terrible because I spanked them   I told them I was sorry and explained why I spankes them. My 4 year old was all sorry and stuff but my son just came up and hit me and started kicking the wall...

call nanny 911.

It really hope you get help. ): It always scares me when people say they will beat their kids, even if they're playing or saying it out of frustration.

Could your SO help maybe? Can you call someone that's willing to help you take care of the kids for an hour or two?

It sounds like you're in need of some serious relaxing/spa time.

i feel you...somedays my kid just drives me nuts and i feel bad cause i get so frustrated with her .... and i really try to just calm down and attend to her needs ...somedays i just can't wait for her naptime and bedtime so i can have mee time  

I think I just really need a break. I started a full time job (where my kids come with me) at a daycare. Ive been stressing over court stuff and SO stuff. My only free time is when I'm sleeping!

Quoting *Momlette*:" I think I just really need a break. I started a full time job (where my kids come with me) at a daycare. Ive been stressing over court stuff and SO stuff. My only free time is when I'm sleeping!"

yupp sounds about right   i feel ya and i cant work atm which sucks cause i never get a break

I'm so sorry that you're having a hard time right now. It sounds like it's just your son's age, isn't he 2? 2 was the worst year for my oldest, she's turning 3 soon and she can still be a little demon and throw the temper tantrums but it seems like she's starting to calm down a little bit.

<blockquote><b>Quoting I♥MyTots:</b>" I'm so sorry that you're having a hard time right now. It sounds like it's just your son's age, isn't ... [snip!] ... and she can still be a little demon and throw the temper tantrums but it seems like she's starting to calm down a little bit. "</blockquote>




Hes three and I think its worse then when he was 2 lol and at 4 Anna is behaving worse then any other age but I think she's playing off her brother ya know.

Quoting *Momlette*:" <blockquote><b>Quoting I♥MyTots:</b>" I'm so sorry that you're having a hard ... [snip!] ... then when he was 2 lol and at 4 Anna is behaving worse then any other age but I think she's playing off her brother ya know."

  don't tell me that...