Quoting **Hanna**:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Yurvette [♥]:</b>" Im sorry, but this is your own fault. ... [snip!] ... hence the reason i want his mom to know . just about the baby, nothing else. my othe two sons have a different father."
Why does his mom need to know?
Honestly, I don't see what there is to be jealous of. This guy sounds like a smurfing loser. He has four kids (no doubt by multiple women), he's 34, he threatened to fire you, he's a douche bag in general, etc. You deserve better than that. Stop lowering the bar so much and set some real standards. Stop giving a smurf about a guy who's being so cruel to you and your child-to-be. I know it's easier said than done, believe me I do. But the sooner you do it the better off you'll be.
As for now try to avoid interacting with him as much as possible (aside from anything having to do with the baby and only if he willingly obliges). Don't text him, don't talk to him, don't smurf him, don't bring family into this, don't try to emotionally extort him or seek revenge, etc. Rise above the dramatic bullsmurf and realize that there's more to life than this kind of smurf.
You deserve better.