re: I want to leave him so smurfing bad it hurts.

Quoting Christina Getty:" i only really have my dad and his wife...and I moved out when i was 17 because i don't get along with her...living there would make me just as miserable."

Which would be better? Living there or living with him?

this lap top that I am typing on...I worked my ass off for! I was pregnant and worked in a restaurant as a hostess and saved up all my tips to buy a lap top...and he treats it with no respect!....I know this must sound so petty of me complaining about material things...but he throws it..has spilled things on it...he just hit it really hard before i posted this thread. I ask him to respect my property and he mocks me...but god smurfing forbid I spill a glass of water or something on ACCIDENT on his precious rug he blows up. I really can't wait till he knows I mean business and I leave!

Quoting Christina Getty:" this lap top that I am typing on...I worked my ass off for! I was pregnant and worked in a restaurant ... [snip!] ... water or something on ACCIDENT on his precious rug he blows up. I really can't wait till he knows I mean business and I leave!"

I know how you feel. Luckily my ex wasnt an ass like that but yeah things were really bad.

Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" Which would be better? Living there or living with him? "

just living with me and my daughter..right now would be ideal. My dad lives 45 minutes away from the city i live in..and my job is here...that would suck making that commute.and i would most likely have to be in the basement...as my step sister is living in my old room.

Quoting Christina Getty:" just living with me and my daughter..right now would be ideal. My dad lives 45 minutes away from the ... [snip!] ... would suck making that commute.and i would most likely have to be in the basement...as my step sister is living in my old room."

How old is your daughter? I know when I was in the same situation, my ex left when our son was 3. And thankfully he doesnt remember any of it. He just sees what his father treats me like now. I know what ideally it would be. lol.

Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" How old is your daughter? I know when I was in the same situation, my ex left when our son was 3. And ... [snip!] ... he doesnt remember any of it. He just sees what his father treats me like now. I know what ideally it would be. lol. "

she is only 9 months old....i never want her to understand what is going on...

Quoting Christina Getty:" she is only 9 months old....i never want her to understand what is going on..."

Well thats a good thing that she is still very young! And I totally understand. My smurfer ex has hit me a few times with our son in my arms, and thrown things around our son.