Quoting Safka9973:" <blockquote><b>Quoting James Mama:</b>" I just do not understand why people continuously ... [snip!] ... understand what causes pregnancy. The welfare moms you hear about who keep popping them out and having their kids taken away."
What an insensitive and illogical statement.
I have known "welfare moms" who have worked hard to provide their children with the best possible start in life (Which I believe was your initial arguement? Government pays so you can hang out with your kid?) and I have know rich parents who are complete not invested in their child's development.
Similarily, I have known parents with children in daycare who spend every moment they are together engaged in fun, educational and empathy building activities and SAHP's who stick their children in front of the TV with donouts all day.
If you are so happy with your own situation, that is good for you. I don't know however how you can seriously place so many inconsistant and judgemental opinions on other parents.