Quoting Jenna+1:" It really depends on where you live. Like in South Carolina it's a pro-mother state. Meaning the mom ... [snip!] ... dirty when it comes to their kids and say a lot of stuff just to make themselves look good and the other parent to look unfit."
I mean we agreed visitation and he refused to attend then he took me to court saying I refused to let him see him and then got bollocked by the court when I gave them the letter proving he refused to say him. I'm just worried he's gonna hurt him he's already told the court he can't offer consistency and can't afford to go see him I just don't want him in and out of his life when he see's fit or can be bothered