Quoting Brat ✖ Status:" I was 19 when I had my son Sylas and I lived with my mom.....I used to get frustrated that they would ... [snip!] ... your mom is probably acting that way cause her mom did to her too....your mom probably felt the same and just doesnt remember."
Right, like I said I know they are trying to help and sometimes I do need the help.. but other times I have everything under control. I wish they would just back off and wait until I actually asked for the help. They told me a million times while I was pregnant not to let anyone tell me what to do because "babies don't come with a handbook" and that they would just offer advice and it was up to me if I wanted to follow it or not but since he's actually been here, they just know everything and if I don't do it their way then I'm doing it wrong.
My mom actually wasn't ready to have children and didn't take care of me anyways, my grandma and grandpa raised me while my mom was out partying so I'm not sure if I should trust ANY of her advice lol.