Quoting lolajessup:" Ok here's my dilemma. So my mom wanted to have a baby shower for me. Then we found out I was being hospitalized ... [snip!] ... shell be so old. Any advice or ideas are welcome. I just don't want to risk her ending up back in the nicu over a party."
i love the skype party idea
other than that, i think you're SOL...
i would NOT take her around people for at least 3 - 6 months, if she's born before 36 weeks.
i took my munchkins to a party about 2 months after they were born.
the party was in july, and i kept them basically to myself
certainly didn't let them get passed around or anything
but sure enough, both caught colds. i couldn't forgive myself. what did they
get out of the party? nothing! i felt sooo selfish for dragging them, and getting them sick.
just isn't worth it.