Quoting NadieAlawa:" Alright, it's very, very difficult to explain. I guess I shouldn't have posted about it. But I'll try ... [snip!] ... things with him is very uncomfortable to me and he doesn't understand. He thinks I'm being selfish when I act shy and stuff."
I'm a christian, it's not a hard religion to get out of. Just stop going if you want out. Like I said, I understand it's uncomfortable but 9 times out of 10 in a situation like that the guy will break up with the girl. I'm sorry to say that, and hope that isn't the case with you. It's just when a guy is in a situation where the family doesn't like the girl, there is a lot of pressure put on him. Then you have a girl who isn't willing to suck it up once in awhile, and it makes it worse. I really hope things turn out for the best, but idk what other advice to give you. Also, if he is atheist then why are you the bad guy?