Court question hypothetically speaking

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I would definately be calling a lawyer and having the issue readdressed in court.

Ummm I would have it go back to being the way it was court ordered. He can't disagree with it.

This is definitely not hypothetical.

Your ex is not your keeper. He is also your ex.

Have whoever you want around your child. It's your life and your responsibility to make sure your child isn't around bad influences. As long as that's the case, it doesn't matter what he thinks or wants. It's your life.

Stop giving a smurf half and a smurf about whatever the hell he's doing and who he's doing it with. He is not your problem, nor is his life any of your concern. Obviously you trust him as a father, so you're going to need to let it go and trust him not to have smurffy people around your child.

Don't get just decide to be pissed off about it because he doesn't want YOU doing it. You're the one allowing him to control your decisions.

Whoa you have that smurf twisted because I don't give two smurfs what my BD or whom he does it with, that's none of my business, but who my daughter is around and what she hears IS. No, I HAVE to keep them apart.

At the same time though the judge would tell you bd could take her wherever he wants. I'm just saying from experience.

My BD used the kids to drag drugs over the town and even after he was busted the judge said he could do what he wanted with the kids when he wanted as long as it was during his visitation.

Quoting P3RvYmCp3rv:"

Drugs? Really...? That's SUCH a safe enviornment for children... (can you delete your quote, please)

Quoting ♛ Rudeness.:" Whoa you have that smurf twisted because I don't give two smurfs what my BD or whom he does it with, that's ... [snip!] ... does it with, that's none of my business, but who my daughter is around and what she hears IS. No, I HAVE to keep them apart."

You very obviously care what he's doing and with whom. Your entire OP is riddled with senseless drama that doesn't involve you.

He is your daughter's father and his life does not involve you. Your daughter has visitation with him and when he's there, you have no control over what he does. You obviously trust him enough to have your daughter with him, which means you trust him enough to make good decisions about the people he chooses to have around your daughter.

No judge is going to care to hear about your drama.

You two need to realize that your separate lives are not the business of one another and never will be. If you trust him to be with her alone, you're agreeing to trust his decisions when she's around and vice versa. If you don't trust him anymore, take him to court....but sitting around snooping and involving yourself in someone else's personal life isn't going to do anything.

Actually, I don't "trust" him, but vistitation is court ordered so I might as well deal with it accordingly and the only reason I was even semi-okay with him being "alone" with her is because he told everyone that vistation has been at his mothers home WITH her there normally.. I don't care whom my BD does or what he does, but think what you wish. "He's" the one starting drama with/about this woman. I just don't want it around my kid. I'm not "snooping" either, btw.

Quoting ♛ Rudeness.:" Actually, I don't "trust" him, but vistitation is court ordered so I might as well deal with it accordingly ... [snip!] ... wish. "He's" the one starting drama with/about this woman. I just don't want it around my kid. I'm not "snooping" either, btw. "

Drama drama drama.

If you don't trust him, take him to court.

If you're not going to do anything about it, obviously it's not that big of a deal and you're going to save yourself a lot of time and energy by not caring.

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We just got finished with court, literally. JUST got our finalized court papers. I plan on asking my lawyer about it Monday, but until then there's nothing I can do. I just asked other peoples opinions, if they were in the situation.

Quoting ♛ Rudeness.:" We just got finished with court, literally. JUST got our finalized court papers. I plan on asking ... [snip!] ... about it Monday, but until then there's nothing I can do. I just asked other peoples opinions, if they were in the situation."

You can always file your own motions. But the judge is going to ask why you went to court and were fine with everything last month and all of a sudden, aren't okay with it.

Quoting ♛ Rudeness.:" Drugs? Really...? That's SUCH a safe enviornment for children... (can you delete your quote, please)"

yeap and done. Honestly I would wait at least a year to try to change anything. Always consult your laywer though.

Quoting P3RvYmCp3rv:" yeap and done. Honestly I would wait at least a year to try to change anything. Always consult your laywer though. "

That's why I plan on calling her Monday, before I say anything to him. I don't do anything in this situation without consulting her.

Quoting ♛ Rudeness.:" That's why I plan on calling her Monday, before I say anything to him. I don't do anything in this situation without consulting her."

yeap I have no attorney anmore. Mine was trying to talk me into letting BD have 50/50.