i need help

I feel like my marriage is in danger. there is no romance or passion. i have absolutely no sex drive and its taking a toll on our marriage. DH wants more sex and isn't satisfied with me just pleasing him. idk if there is something wrong with me and if there is idk how to fix it. is there something that can increase a woman's sex drive other than BC?

it has gotten so bad that i've been having a lot of dreams recently of me cheating on him or at least being with other men. i really need advice because i feel we're on the verge of a separation...plz help!

I always thought BC decreased your sex drive? I hardly have a sex drive - I never have. But once we get going, I always get into it but I'm not one to get turned on previous.

Quoting lamr - 02-08-13-21:" I always thought BC decreased your sex drive? I hardly have a sex drive - I never have. But once we get going, I always get into it but I'm not one to get turned on previous."

that happens sometimes.

i was thinking it may be my hormones still messed up from having LO was why i was thinking BC.

Quoting lamr - 02-08-13-21:" I always thought BC decreased your sex drive? I hardly have a sex drive - I never have. But once we get going, I always get into it but I'm not one to get turned on previous."

Same here.

Talk to your doctor about your "lazy libido"

Quoting *A&N's Mama*:" Same here. Talk to your doctor about your "lazy libido""

i saw something on tv for guys. "boosts sex drive, increase energy (and something else i can't remember)". sounded like exactly what i need but its for men only. go figure!