Quoting shes*almost*one!:" dont you want to enjoy your son before you rush into having another? doesnt he deserve having his mother ... [snip!] ... himself and not being pushed aside for another baby? he's only 3 months old... he's still a tiny baby. give it a little time. "
I wouldn't say it's "rushing into having another one" as It's something I've always wanted.... And I am enjoying my son, and I would carry on enjoying him and loving him while I'm pregnant and when new baby gets here aswell. BUT I'm not pregnant yet, and it'll take a while for Dave to say yes anyway so it probably wont happen for a while. and as for him getting "pushed aside" is crap, lol. If there was even a slightest chance that I'd push him aside for a new baby then I wouldn't even think about it. But I know I wouldn't. I've always wanted children close together.
Everyone has their own opinions though. Some people feel they could handle it, some people feel they couldn't.