Quoting InkDMomma:" Everyone is always saying "OH POOR SIL she is so overwhelmed with having 4 kids poor her blah blah blah" ... [snip!] ... get "fixed" Maybe if you disciplined your smurffy little kids they would be more bearable to be around AND they would behave..."
are you jealous because they aren't helping you?
4 kids is a lot. I LOVE my kids... but also love when family wants to help me. She didn't ahve 4 by herself.. she had them with her SO. So.. if he's gone for an entire weekend... and family wants to help.. FANTASTIC.