GAH why do you feel bad?!

Everyone is always saying "OH POOR SIL she is so overwhelmed with having 4 kids poor her blah blah blah"
Like for guys weekend... everyone is offering to take her kids so she doesn't have all 4 of them by herself for 2 days.

Well... thing is, she smurfing TRIED for all 4 of them. She WANTED all of them... but you cannot handle them by yourself?!
it's not that hard to not have that many kids...

I know it's dumb but it just irritates the smurfing smurf out of me when my entire family pity partys her. If you couldn't handle 2 kids... 3 kids.. what the smurf made you think you could handle 4?!

My aunt had 8 smurfing kids she did ALL by herself because my uncle worked 24.7... my grandma had 7 kids she did ALL by herself because my papa worked...

If you cannot handle the amount of children you have... YOU PROBABLY should get "fixed"

Maybe if you disciplined your smurffy little kids they would be more bearable to be around AND they would behave...

God.... just imagine if something happened to her SO. She will be sol... lol.

Sounds like she enjoyed the baby phase and once they grew up she didn't care as much. All babies turn into children.

Ugh it is friggin pathetic she can't handle her own kids. I remember your last post about her wanting her SO to take the kids on guys weekend. Still think its complete BS on her end.

Quoting Addi's Momma:" Sounds like she enjoyed the baby phase and once they grew up she didn't care as much. All babies turn into children."

yeah she ditches her other 3 on everyone else and just obsesses over her new baby.

Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" God.... just imagine if something happened to her SO. She will be sol... lol. "

NOPE mommy and daddy would let her move right back in and take care of her kids.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Addi's Momma:</b>" Sounds like she enjoyed the baby phase and once they grew up she didn't care as much. All babies turn into children."</blockquote>




Exactly! I think a lot of people forget this.

Quoting InkDMomma:" NOPE mommy and daddy would let her move right back in and take care of her kids."

what the smurf... those are her kids. wtf..

Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" what the smurf... those are her kids. wtf.. "

ENABLERS

They always ask "omg how could you guys handle more kids" EASY I smurfing discipline my children and I can HANDLE my children. I love my children. I love them as babies and I love them even more when they grow up and see the things I have taught them influencing them.

I hate when people want pity for situations they wanted to be in. Like when they buy a smurf ton of crap they don't need and complain they can't feed their family.

amen. i agree with you. my sister couldnt take care of her kid wen she only had one. why she thought it was a great idea to TRY for a second with a guy she knew for a month? no idea. now she has a 5year old that is a terror and about to have a newborn. let alone she and the guy are both drug addicts. i take zero pity on her even thou my whole family goes out of there way to help her and make smurf easier on her. could careless that im pregnant with my second too. my sister always comes first becasue she has it sooo hard >.<

Quoting InkDMomma:" ENABLERS They always ask "omg how could you guys handle more kids" EASY I smurfing discipline my children ... [snip!] ... I love them as babies and I love them even more when they grow up and see the things I have taught them influencing them."

Its not that hard to be a parent... and handle your kids.

I hate that smurf. I hear all the time how my friend needs a break from her kids. They are 3 and 6 and both are in school full-time plus her mom takes them every single weekend so she can "relax." WTF? Then she wants to watch my 6 month old because "babies are so cute." Ummmm no. Plus my 6 month old cries a lot and never sleeps. She would give him back after 45 minutes lol.

<blockquote><b>Quoting →Ebahϖ:</b>" amen. i agree with you. my sister couldnt take care of her kid wen she only had one. why she thought ... [snip!] ... on her. could careless that im pregnant with my second too. my sister always comes first becasue she has it sooo hard >.<"</blockquote>




Sounds like my SIL, everyone takes pity on her cause she has a hard time writing and reading so she has no choice but to not get a job and expect her parents to take care of her and her 2 kids plus 1 on the way. (she has a home they gave her, pay her bills, buy everything and she still bitches and complains)

Quoting InkDMomma:" Everyone is always saying "OH POOR SIL she is so overwhelmed with having 4 kids poor her blah blah blah" ... [snip!] ... get "fixed" Maybe if you disciplined your smurffy little kids they would be more bearable to be around AND they would behave..."

are you jealous because they aren't helping you?

4 kids is a lot. I LOVE my kids... but also love when family wants to help me. She didn't ahve 4 by herself.. she had them with her SO. So.. if he's gone for an entire weekend... and family wants to help.. FANTASTIC.