re: babys fathers issues... need advice.

Quoting **Hanna**:" he he has a seven year old son he never sees and a eight and 4 year old daughters who have the same ... [snip!] ... on track . he lives in a one bedroom apartment ... would his mom really be proud ? this is just my opinion/thought on it."

well that's his own fault he can't wrap his smurf up if he doesn't have his life together.
His mom shouldn't suffer, not knowing she has a grand child, because her son is a gigantic immature prick.

Quoting **Hanna**:" he he has a seven year old son he never sees and a eight and 4 year old daughters who have the same ... [snip!] ... on track . he lives in a one bedroom apartment ... would his mom really be proud ? this is just my opinion/thought on it."

Does she know about any of the other kids?

Quoting **Hanna**:" <blockquote><b>Quoting InkDMomma:</b>" Oh I dated a douche bag like that. I didn't ... [snip!] ... of them for over 2 years because they didn't want a "snotty crying little brat""</blockquote> What???? That's nuts!"

YUP
Still a piece of smurf to this day, mind you.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Sophia's Mommy♥:</b>"   I'd be beyond pissed if my son didn't tell me his girlfriend was expecting a baby."</blockquote>




How do you ladies think I should go about this?
While he was at her house, he went on her facebook and blocked me... So u can't message her.
But I have her number, her address, and I know where she works.,

Should I call, go there, or what?

And should I wait til I move?

Quoting **Hanna**:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Sophia's Mommy♥:</b>"   I'd be beyond pissed if my ... [snip!] ... I have her number, her address, and I know where she works., Should I call, go there, or what? And should I wait til I move?"

I think you should go to her house and introduce yourself. It would probably be best if you wait until you move.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Sophia's Mommy♥:</b>" I think you should go to her house and introduce yourself. It would probably be best if you wait until you move."</blockquote>




I think that's what I'll do. And yes, they have pics of his son on her fridge. The last pics they got from his mom was at 10 months and he's 7 now. And yes, she knows about the girls because he status at his moms every other weekend when he has them.

<blockquote><b>Quoting InkDMomma:</b>" YUP Still a piece of smurf to this day, mind you."</blockquote>




Do they see the child now at all?

Quoting **Hanna**:" <blockquote><b>Quoting InkDMomma:</b>" YUP Still a piece of smurf to this day, mind you."</blockquote> Do they see the child now at all?"

On occasion, when it's a family event like a holiday so he can show off.
 

<blockquote><b>Quoting The Doctor:</b>" Hell BD didn't tell his mom when he broke up with me. I did. She was so smurfing pissed he didn't tell her."</blockquote>




See, I keep thinking she's not going to be upset with me, but he is a mommas boy and I get the feeling that he can do no wrong in her eyes.

But, either way, I'll just tell her and let her decide if she wants to know get grandson or not.

Quoting **Hanna**:" <blockquote><b>Quoting The Doctor:</b>" Hell BD didn't tell his mom when he broke ... [snip!] ... can do no wrong in her eyes. But, either way, I'll just tell her and let her decide if she wants to know get grandson or not."

Dear lord, you aren't dating my BD are you?! No, I kid, I kid. But, seriously... his mom thinks the same. I swear... I wonder why they think they're doing any service to their own child by not encouraging them to be less of a douche bag.

<blockquote><b>Quoting The Doctor:</b>" Dear lord, you aren't dating my BD are you?! No, I kid, I kid. But, seriously... his mom thinks the ... [snip!] ... I wonder why they think they're doing any service to their own child by not encouraging them to be less of a douche bag."</blockquote>




Haha. Right?! Exactly.
They are enabling their children to stay children.

Quoting **Hanna**:" <blockquote><b>Quoting The Doctor:</b>" Dear lord, you aren't dating my BD are you?! ... [snip!] ... to be less of a douche bag."</blockquote> Haha. Right?! Exactly. They are enabling their children to stay children."

My "dad" is 55 years old and his mother STILL enables him...
Once a piece of smurf... always a piece of smurf lol

Quoting **Hanna**:" <blockquote><b>Quoting The Doctor:</b>" Dear lord, you aren't dating my BD are you?! ... [snip!] ... to be less of a douche bag."</blockquote> Haha. Right?! Exactly. They are enabling their children to stay children."

It's absolutely ridiculous.

BD and his fiance live with his parent's. They just bought him a new car. Makes me sick... their on the verge of bankruptcy and still not encouraging their child to grow the smurf up, and even encouraging his fiance to grow "down".