re: Vent!

Quoting Mama Crash ☮:" You're allowed to vent, honey. Anyone that says otherwise... well, smurf 'em.   It seems to me like you've ... [snip!] ... daughter and all of this will seem like a distant memory. If you ever need someone to vent to, feel free to PM me any time.  "

Thank you(: I just don't want to keep adding to it, and the only reason i'd take them up on the offer is just because i dont want my daughter growing up seeing her grandparents fight 24/7 and seeing them come home drunk.

Quoting Maddie F:" I already have daycare for one and i already have applied for everything, maybe try asking next time? ... [snip!] ... fighting. That was my point. I wasn't sitting here saying it was their job too, just that every once in a while would be nice. "

If you already have daycare, why can't you work?

Quoting A❤T=P+[It's a Girl:" Where did I say anything about her being a teen? If she has someone who is willing to and wants to ... [snip!] ... nobody is obligated to do so. She was complaining about her not helping and staying up all night "acting like a teenager"."

0.o I read that he accuses her of that. Maybe I misread but I didn't get anywhere her complaining that she doesn't get to stay up all night.

Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" That's not what I took from it. What I took is pretty much her mom isn't allowed to even if she wants ... [snip!] ... to go to the store without having to hassle with getting him in and out and spitting his binki on the floor every 5 minutes lol"

That's exactly what i'm saying. It just upsets me that she doesn't try and stick up for herself or me. Even parents who are on their own doing everything have the grandparents watch their children every so often and the grandparents like spending time with them. Even though we live with them they never really see her. My mom works all day and parties all weekend and my step-dad/her fiance just practices in his band all day and again parties all weekend.

Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" 0.o I read that he accuses her of that. Maybe I misread but I didn't get anywhere her complaining that she doesn't get to stay up all night."

They fight 24/7 and they drink 24/7 it's just ridiculous. Again i know i have no room to be ungrateful because i chose this but still. they act like teenagers staying up all night and sleeping all day

Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" I'd honestly not count on that since it's so far away. I'd do what you can now   And not to be the ... [snip!] ... the negative Nancy here, but boys come and go. Don't try and plan your future around him. Do what's best for you right now  "

That's very true. I'm definitely going to talk to them about it after this semester when i have a car and all that but it just makes me feel so bad and i think realizing how much my grandparents are doing for me makes it that much more obvious how my parents could care less. They've always been in their own little world

Quoting A❤T=P+[It's a Girl:" If you already have daycare, why can't you work?"

Again because my grandparents are paying for my college and for my daughter and have said that if i get a job they will STOP paying for my college, her daycare and all that. They offered to help me on the condition of me doing college and i accepted, and i'm following their terms which seem pretty good to me.

Quoting A❤T=P+[It's a Girl:" They fight 24/7 and they drink 24/7 it's just ridiculous. Again i know i have no room to be ungrateful ... [snip!] ... have no room to be ungrateful because i chose this but still. they act like teenagers staying up all night and sleeping all day"

That's also not me saying that i would like to do that? Just that i dont agree with their lifestyles.

Quoting Maddie F:" That's exactly what i'm saying. It just upsets me that she doesn't try and stick up for herself or me. ... [snip!] ... all day and parties all weekend and my step-dad/her fiance just practices in his band all day and again parties all weekend. "

Sadly we can't force anyone to grow up, even parents. I've pretty much had to be the parent to my mom my whole life so I can understand a bit. I still have to tell her what she needs to do a lot. It gets frustrating that's for sure.

Quoting Maddie F:" I've been holding off on really posting anything about my living situation on here because i know that ... [snip!] ... then they said i should do it all alone but they said if i stay in college they'll pay for everything until i get on my feet."

can u live with ur grandparentS? they seem to be willing to help alot more than your mom and u have to do whats best for ur baby

Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" Sadly we can't force anyone to grow up, even parents. I've pretty much had to be the parent to my mom ... [snip!] ... whole life so I can understand a bit. I still have to tell her what she needs to do a lot. It gets frustrating that's for sure."

i'm so used to it by now. I've had to take care of my dad while he was into drugs and i've had to be my moms go to person whenever she wants to cry about her boyfriends. this whole post is me just being upset in general that she wont just tell him to smurf off and to do what she wants. I had to explain everything else because i haven't posted about this before

Quoting A❤T=P+[It's a Girl:" They fight 24/7 and they drink 24/7 it's just ridiculous. Again i know i have no room to be ungrateful ... [snip!] ... have no room to be ungrateful because i chose this but still. they act like teenagers staying up all night and sleeping all day"

She's not saying she does that....   I did misread at first, reading it again since you kindly posted it, it's saying her parents party and stay up all night. Not her.

Quoting Beanie's Breeder:" can u live with ur grandparentS? they seem to be willing to help alot more than your mom and u have to do whats best for ur baby"

I asked them at one point when it got really bad (the fighting and all) and they're in their 70's and have their own life. That's why we all talked about me moving out once i got the car situation figured out and that'll be next semester

Quoting Maddie F:" That's very true. I'm definitely going to talk to them about it after this semester when i have a car ... [snip!] ... are doing for me makes it that much more obvious how my parents could care less. They've always been in their own little world"

I'd just be grateful you have someone who's willing to do so much for you. Parents aren't always "parents" and it's nice that even though they aren't very kind that you have someone to be there for you. You definitely got lucky with your situation   It'll be something you look back on once you're older and have a degree and will be more thankful than words will ever be able to express for it all.

Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" She's not saying she does that....   I did misread at first, reading it again since you kindly posted it, it's saying her parents party and stay up all night. Not her."

Where did i say anything about her doing that,smh.
I said clearly, OP is complaining about her Mom. Her mom is an adult, can drinnk and do whatever she wants, she is not obligated to watch op's kid or help in any way.