DH not watching porn, weird?
posted 12th Jan
The other day DH left his phone when he went out so I thought oooooh I'll have a little nosey at his history and see how much he watches porn (I have no issues with porn, I don't ever snoop, think I've been on BG too much and had seen to many porn posts and got far to curious lol) Well I went through about 3 months of history and absolutely NO porn whatsoever. When he came home I said to him about it and he just said what was the big deal, he has an imagination and he doesn't really need porn, also that it's not like he hasn't seen plenty of porn in his life and once you've seen one you have seen them all so he's not that interested, he couldn't remember the last time he watched it, he may watch it very very rarely but he's not that fussed over it. He thought it was hilarious I had went through his phone and he was getting questioned on why he wasn't watching porn....... Does anyone find this strange? Honestly I just assumed ALL men watched porn regularly and the only ones who didn't were the ones who had an agreement not to. Does anyone also have an DH/SO who doesn't watch it, like he knows you are fine with him watching it but just bother out of his own choice?
quotesmurfs?posted 12th Jan
My husbanD doesn't. Nor do I.
I dont think it's weird. Were satisfied without it.
quoteposted 12th Jan
Haha thats too funny that you snoop and grill him about not doing it
Mine doesnt anymore because he struggled with an addiction. It wasn't somethig I made him do. He just stopped himself.
quoteposted 12th Jan
My SO doesn't ... He used to but he decided ages ago to stop doing it. I didn't make him stop, I actually didn't even believe him when he told me, but it's been over a year now and he reckons he still doesn't watch it.
quoteposted 12th Jan
He never did it before he was with me & hasn't since to my knowledge. He's been to a strip club once for a bachelor party & said it was very weird for him.
quoteposted 12th Jan
My husband doesn't watch porn or jack off since we have sex regularly. He hasn't jacked off like that since before we started dating. Shrug, I know that's probably weird.
quotesmurfs?posted 12th Jan
<blockquote><b>Quoting justanothamotha:</b>" He never did it before he was with me & hasn't since to my knowledge. He's been to a strip club once for a bachelor party & said it was very weird for him."</blockquote>
(well minus the strip club lol) DH is 22
quoteposted 12th Jan
My SO watches a fair bit of porn, mostly because we work opposite shifts, and I have medical conditions that mean I have a very very low sexual drive or ability. I would be concerned if he wasn't watching it or jacking off.
quotesmurfs?posted 12th Jan
Ehh I think thats good. I think porn is gross... I would hope mine doesnt but ehhh
quotesmurfs?posted 12th Jan
My SO doesn't have time to watch porn.
quotesmurfs?posted 12th Jan
My SO doesn't watch porn, he doesn't have time.
And usually if he needs a release.. I'm there for that.
He rarely jacks off, if ever.
quotesmurfs?posted 12th Jan
Quoting lolajessup:" Haha thats too funny that you snoop and grill him about not doing it Mine doesnt anymore because he struggled with an addiction. It wasn't somethig I made him do. He just stopped himself."
Lol!
Yeah I can inderstand why he doesnt watch it then and that is a good thing
quoteposted 12th Jan
<blockquote><b>Quoting Blah:</b>" My SO doesn't ... He used to but he decided ages ago to stop doing it. I didn't make him stop, I actually ... [snip!] ... I actually didn't even believe him when he told me, but it's been over a year now and he reckons he still doesn't watch it."</blockquote>
Did he say why?
quoteposted 12th Jan
<blockquote><b>Quoting justanothamotha:</b>" He never did it before he was with me & hasn't since to my knowledge. He's been to a strip club once for a bachelor party & said it was very weird for him."</blockquote>
Yeah DH has never been to a strip place saying it doesn't interest him and he imagines it would just be awkward.... In fact when we visited Amsterdam we went a walk around the red light district, not for anything other than to say we had been and DH would look straight ahead saying he didn't want to look at the women because they may think he is staring and he wasn't going to be disrespectful like that because they may want paying customers but other people shouldn't treat it like a free Zoo I was like well ok then lol
quoteposted 12th Jan
<blockquote><b>Quoting Destiel:</b>" My SO watches a fair bit of porn, mostly because we work opposite shifts, and I have medical conditions ... [snip!] ... that mean I have a very very low sexual drive or ability. I would be concerned if he wasn't watching it or jacking off."</blockquote>
Yeah depending on our shifts that will dictate how much sex we have. Can be daily or can be a few times a month
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