Grump grump grumpy!

So I blew up today at my husband for not cleaning up after himself! It's irritating. And as much as I love being with my son all day I get an hour in the evening where daddy takes him so I can get things done... Doesn't help when he's following me with baby crying (baby is a HUGE mommys boy <3)bugging me the whole time because he never seems to remember where anything is. So yes anyways I blew up.. Well no actually I gave a little bit of criticism and he gave me a smart aleck lippy teenage like response so that's why I blew up. I'm tired of my husband acting like he's a kid. So now were fighting so I told him to go to his parents. He's like fine but I'm taking baby with me. Wtf.. No. I'm not letting him take my son 2 hours away without me. So!!! I go to my parents for the night once a week with baby (5 min walk away) and now I'm not allowed too :/ when I visit my parents it's to visit, not drop my kid on them. When we go to his parents for a weekend, he drops him off on them and myself (again dont mind so much about that love spending all my time with baby) and plays video games with his brothers all day. Plus! I know this sounds petty on my part but I already told him I refuse to drive out there too be ignored by him just so his parents can see baby because they never get too. But in my opinion they choose not to see him because they are in the city quite often but were "too far" because we live on the opposite side of the city that they come in from. Baby is 3 months and we took him out there seven times. I think it's their turn too make an effort. It's less work for them to come by for the day then us going out there for a weekend and packing his bassinet, swing, playmat, diapers, wipes, bottles, formula, clothes, and all the stuff he needs. AND all OUR stuff for the weekend. Blah. just grumpy. Ok done rant thank you!!!

I get a little frustrated with my husband too..not because he doesn't know where things are, but because there are some of the simplest things he could do and doesnt. It drives me crazy especially because I have been nesting for this new baby..I guess I started early. I am lucky because he does give the girls a bath and he does help with picking up there playroom at night before her leaves its just some days I cant help myself but snap. Once in awhile we have a day where all we do is butt heads and sometimes its about the stupidest things..so I just try to shrug it off especially because after asking him to do something and telling him I want it done now he usually does it. I don't think you had a child just so you could take care of a child. He needs to understand that if he doesn't want a fussy baby he has to spend more time with him then just an hour and for it to work he needs to stay away from you for that hour..for our first I put sticky notes up everywhere for my husband so he knew where things were when I went to work   arent I nice. lol. I come home one time and her cloths are on backwards..guess the sticky notes werent specific enough. :-\

<blockquote><b>Quoting March 2013:</b>" I get a little frustrated with my husband too..not because he doesn't know where things are, but because ... [snip!] ...   arent I nice. lol. I come home one time and her cloths are on backwards..guess the sticky notes werent specific enough. :-\"</blockquote>




I like the idea of sticky notes! I should give that a try   lol now lets see if he will ,lay off the video games to help get some things done!! No excuses now  

Quoting Mommeh2bee:" <blockquote><b>Quoting March 2013:</b>" I get a little frustrated with my husband too..not ... [snip!] ... should give that a try   lol now lets see if he will ,lay off the video games to help get some things done!! No excuses now  "

lol..tell him he gets an hour for video games just like you should get an hour to yourself..then its an hour for cleaning picking up waterever house chorse.   I think a little seperate time is healthy but I do mean little not hours like as in plural..but thats just me. ;)