Attractive?
posted 11th Jan
In all seriousness, do you feel attractive? Do you get called sexy, beautiful, pretty, etc and actually FEEL that way?
I don't... I get called that a lot, but I feel like a blob of smurf constantly, I don't know why. I hate it, and I wish I felt better about myself.
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Utahposted 11th Jan
I did when I wasn't pregnant. I feel so gross, I can't even find one thing I like about myself right now.
quoteposted 11th Jan
Quoting and then there were 3.:" In all seriousness, do you feel attractive? Do you get called sexy, beautiful, pretty, etc and actually ... [snip!] ... that a lot, but I feel like a blob of smurf constantly, I don't know why. I hate it, and I wish I felt better about myself."
When I am pregnant and when I get a new outfit that actually fits properly rather than ratty yoga pants that have never seen a yoga class.
quotesmurfs?posted 11th Jan
i did at one point, sometimes i feel so fat
quoteI have 1 child & live in
Utahposted 11th Jan
I am the worst at taking compliments because I don't believe them. I hate the way I look now. I am not aging well and I need to lose about 120lbs at this point.
quoteposted 11th Jan
I used to feel that way when I was the "skinny hot friend" as my buddy used to call me...but then I got pregnant and was terrible to my body (like...gained 80+ pounds in pregnancy terrible). So...no, no I don't feel sexy very often.
quoteposted 11th Jan
I wish my husband would pay me compliments. The only time I can get him to is if I point out my flaws. (I don't like doing it that way). Or when I am genuinely happy with what I see, I will comment about how good my (Usually eyes) look today, and he agrees with a better compliment.
Me, I'll just stare at him until he asks me what I am looking at. Then I usually respond with this, "You are so incredibly gorgeous."
quoteposted 11th Jan
I don't anymore. I had gained weight before I got pregnant and then of course I got pregnant and gained more.
SO tells me I am beautiful all the time and I do feel like he means it but I just don't feel sexy anymore. I feel pretty sometimes but never sexy. I am working on losing all of the weight, though.
SO is very supportive of everything at least.
quoteposted 11th Jan
Somedays I do but most days I think I look like hell
My hair is awful,I have no boobs,I'm so skinny my clothes are too big
DH swears I'm sexy but a lot of times I don't feel it
quoteposted 11th Jan
Quoting and then there were 3.:" In all seriousness, do you feel attractive? Do you get called sexy, beautiful, pretty, etc and actually ... [snip!] ... that a lot, but I feel like a blob of smurf constantly, I don't know why. I hate it, and I wish I felt better about myself."
Oh yes! I look like I feel.... Ass! bahaha
quotesmurfs?posted 11th Jan
I did before I got pregnant. Now i just feel like blah.. I was so confident before, I had lost 63lbs and had a new body and was tanning and just felt awesome. Now not at all!
quoteposted 11th Jan
Bleh. Not at all. I used to be when I wa younger. Now I just feel fat and ugly. I am not happy with my skin, hair, or weight. DH thinks I am, but idk why.
quoteposted 11th Jan
I haven't been complimented on my looks in years (I may get a 'your cute' from DH on a rare occasion. Which makes me feel like Im 10 years old) but when I put on makeup and do my hair (which is most of the time) I feel pretty.
quoteposted 11th Jan
Nope. After 7 1/2 years of marriage and 3 kids I just feel like a fat disgusting cow now. My DH definitely doesn't find me attractive anymore other than the fact that I have 'huge tits' according to him. The last time he paid me any kind compliment, even saying that I look nice today, was probably 6 years ago. Hell, he never has sex with me anymore either. Blah.
quoteposted 11th Jan
Quoting and then there were 3.:" In all seriousness, do you feel attractive? Do you get called sexy, beautiful, pretty, etc and actually ... [snip!] ... that a lot, but I feel like a blob of smurf constantly, I don't know why. I hate it, and I wish I felt better about myself."
I did before I got pregnant for the 2nd time but now I feel fat and ugly. I'm horrible at accepting compliments though.
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