re: Attractive?

Not anymore. I used to feel good. I was active and worked out.
Now nothing fits I cant breathe and DH wont have sex with me or even touch me. He says I look beautiful maybe once a month after I've cried about how much my body has changed. I don't know or think he means it since he wont touch me. I get pecks for kisses and he'll open the door. That's its. So over all not I don't feel or look good.

Quoting *PeanutButter*:" Somedays I do but most days I think I look like hell My hair is awful,I have no boobs,I'm so skinny my clothes are too big DH swears I'm sexy but a lot of times I don't feel it"

I am exactly the same way. I'm sorry. I hate being super skinny too and I have no boobs. I got nothin'  

Like now, when I'm sitting around the house wearing baggy clothes with my hair a mess I don't feel attractive at all. I feel fat and gross. But, when I get all fixed up I feel pretty damn attractive.  

Quoting Drippy Hairymuff:" I wish my husband would pay me compliments. The only time I can get him to is if I point out my flaws. ... [snip!] ... just stare at him until he asks me what I am looking at. Then I usually respond with this, "You are so incredibly gorgeous.""

That is sad that you feel you have to "fish" for them. Do you think that because you are fishing in the ways that you are that he feels he compliments you enough?

Quoting Mom of 3 Little Boys!:" Nope. After 7 1/2 years of marriage and 3 kids I just feel like a fat disgusting cow now. My DH definitely ... [snip!] ... compliment, even saying that I look nice today, was probably 6 years ago. Hell, he never has sex with me anymore either. Blah."

This makes me very sad... I think everyone is beautiful no matter what. I'd have to punch him in his junk.... just sayin.