Quoting HopingforaMiracle:" <blockquote><b>Quoting meggymama:</b>" I wish it were here, two friends of mine have ... [snip!] ... different level. But a loss is a loss. I don't trivialize someone else's loss. But mine were different in how I grieved them."
I honestly haven't trivialised anything, I'm sorry if it's come across that way.
All 6 of my losses have been 1st tri - 5,5,5 7 and 8.5 weeks, no talk of a baby in the hospital, no place to visit peoples sympathy extends to telling you to try again, and that it was only cells. I do feel that with a later loss it is harder because you must feel the baby move, you grow to know them. I could not cope with any more losses and this is my last pregnancy because of that. It is very hard to talk about this kind of thing without being misunderstood.