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Me too, Mama, me too -_-

I'm sorry momma :/

<blockquote><b>Quoting Bogey Woman:</b>" Me too, Mama, me too -_- "</blockquote>




DS fell and was crying and I told SO, "hey watch him" and he told me to be quite .. -___-

Quoting Venus Penis Trap.™:" SO would rather be on the phone with his boyfriends for hours like a damn girl talking video games instead of watching DS while I straighten up. I just wanna tear into him. I wish he would grow up!  "

MAKE him help you. What is he good for if he just sits around and expects you to aid his entire life while he just sits back and enjoys it without showing you any appreciation?

You wouldn't have dated him if this is what he was then, don't settle for it now.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" MAKE him help you. What is he good for if he just sits around and expects you to aid his entire life ... [snip!] ... it without showing you any appreciation? You wouldn't have dated him if this is what he was then, don't settle for it now. "</blockquote>



I try but he won't help.. usually never ..

<blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" MAKE him help you. What is he good for if he just sits around and expects you to aid his entire life ... [snip!] ... it without showing you any appreciation? You wouldn't have dated him if this is what he was then, don't settle for it now. "</blockquote>




He was doing better but now he is smurfing up again.

I know about this all too well. I asked Bobby to help me clean (HIS MESSES) tonight & he picked up his snuff can & threw it in the garbage & said "that's all the cleaning I'm doing. I'm playing x-box before I go to bed." Like so matter of factly. Makes me want to kick him in the balls.

I seriously hate that he thinks he has no obligations to pick up around the house because he works. He forgets that being a SAHM IS a job too. & a damn hard one at that.

Quoting Ryleigh's Mommy ♥:" I know about this all too well. I asked Bobby to help me clean (HIS MESSES) tonight & he picked up ... [snip!] ... to pick up around the house because he works. He forgets that being a SAHM IS a job too. & a damn hard one at that."

That's almost exactly what I get every day too. And then gets angry whenever I suggest anything involving our son (like tonight it was when to put him in a toddler bed  )

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ryleigh's Mommy ♥:</b>" I know about this all too well. I asked Bobby to help me clean (HIS MESSES) tonight & he picked up ... [snip!] ... to pick up around the house because he works. He forgets that being a SAHM IS a job too. & a damn hard one at that."</blockquote>




That's exactly how curtis is..

<blockquote><b>Quoting Bogey Woman:</b>" That's almost exactly what I get every day too. And then gets angry whenever I suggest anything involving our son (like tonight it was when to put him in a toddler bed  )"</blockquote>




Sounds just like my SO.. worthless ..

Quoting Bogey Woman:" That's almost exactly what I get every day too. And then gets angry whenever I suggest anything involving our son (like tonight it was when to put him in a toddler bed  )"

EXACTLY. If I tell him to change her diaper, he's like why do I have to? Well why do I have to? lol. I try to explain to him that when he's off work, I'm still working because he won't help. & Then she wakes up so much through the night & he works night shift & we breast feed anyway so it's like I NEVER get a break. I love DD to death & I haven't left her with anyone at all anyway so I'm not saying I'd change a thing about her being my "job." I don't mind that she is a 24/7 job. But it would be nice if he would give me a little break sometimes when he's home.

Quoting Venus Penis Trap.™:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" MAKE him help you. What is he good for if ... [snip!] ... this is what he was then, don't settle for it now. "</blockquote> He was doing better but now he is smurfing up again."

You say he was doing better.....was he actually doing better or was he just "fixing it" like every other time you threaten to leave....only to put in 3 days worth of effort because he stops giving a smurf again?

Quoting Ryleigh's Mommy ♥:" EXACTLY. If I tell him to change her diaper, he's like why do I have to? Well why do I have to? lol. ... [snip!] ... "job." I don't mind that she is a 24/7 job. But it would be nice if he would give me a little break sometimes when he's home. "

OMG I know...and for me, one of the most irritating things is when he acts like that with me or is nasty with me and then tries to get sex out of me...like I seriously want to cold cock him one in the face some days. He's also very unsympathetic to the whole pregnancy thing.

Wow I would hurt my man if this happened. He helps with Thor all the time. The only complaint I have is he sleeps so hard he never hears him at night and he doesn't give him a bath. The bath part is cause he is scared of something happening.

Other then that if he slacks on washing his dishes so if he does that I leave then there. I work full time and go to school full time. I'm not your maid do your own dishes if u eat something during the day.