Quoting Nicole Williamson:" Look I had an iud for three years so no condoms then trying for three years ......no condoms. .....so ... [snip!] ... conclusions about being "bored with it" ask questions ....I asked for advice not negative comments.......#judgmental are we ?"
I can understand it taking forever to get prego. Me and my hubby was together (no condom, or anything) for 5 years and still nothing. It took us getting some help from the doc's before we was able to finally get prego. I can also understand you saying that sex with a condom can be boring. I know what you mean about the feel and everything, cause that was the problem with me. So I suggested different types of condoms. Doesn't matter now that your prego but just an idea for after. I'm sorry everyone's attacking you on here. I know how annoying it is. Your just looking to talk/vent but instead almost everyone has something to say about how "stupid this is" or making fun of you saying "it was boring". We all knew what you meant, we're not thick! We all know sex without a condom feel's more enjoyable then sex with. You wasn't saying having safe sex was what was boring, mearly that the sex with the condoms was boring. But to tap on what you actually posted on. Your ready weather you think you are or not. Think about it, as soon as you see that baby your going to love it just as much and you know that hon. Plus look at it this way...since your youngest is still young you wouldn't have to 'start over'. You'll be ok hon
Don't stress and just enjoy the bundle of joy you are going to have hon