re: just had a baby and pregnant again

Quoting HotMom21ERF:" Guess you shouldve thought about that before you got "bored" with protection?"

  

Well, it was kind of a choice you made o.O Good luck, though! Every child is a blessing  

my sil got pregnant when her son was 7 months. Def not planned but tehy are excited and will deal with it perfectly fine. As im sure you will do...It may seem overwhelming and probably will be at times, but you will do it just fine  
and all your kids will be close in age...if thats what you like  

Look I had an iud for three years so no condoms then trying for three years ......no condoms. .....so we weren't used to them or felt horrible. ..been married for almost 8 years he wanted to wait for another another year but after a miscarriage and there years of waiting for another blessing I didn't want to lose the opportunity for another sweet baby ......I mean gee three years of no condoms and trying I figured it. Would take a while to get pregnant again. ....... And my oldest is almost 7 so only one baby .......so before you jump to conclusions about being "bored with it" ask questions ....I asked for advice not negative comments.......#judgmental are we ?

Quoting Nicole Williamson:" Look I had an iud for three years so no condoms then trying for three years ......no condoms. .....so ... [snip!] ... conclusions about being "bored with it" ask questions ....I asked for advice not negative comments.......#judgmental are we ?"

Who's being judgmental ? If I am not mistaken a couple people asked you about "Getting bored with condoms."

Quoting Nicole Williamson:" Look I had an iud for three years so no condoms then trying for three years ......no condoms. .....so ... [snip!] ... conclusions about being "bored with it" ask questions ....I asked for advice not negative comments.......#judgmental are we ?"

This isn't twitter or instagram..Hashtags are not needed.  .

But honestly, just take it a day at a time, and you still have options if you truly aren't ready. I'm sure it's just one of THOSE things where you wanted it, and now you have it and it's like "ASLKDJASLDKJ! Really!?". Like it was a good idea in theory until you actually have to deal with it.

Quoting Nicole Williamson:" Look I had an iud for three years so no condoms then trying for three years ......no condoms. .....so ... [snip!] ... conclusions about being "bored with it" ask questions ....I asked for advice not negative comments.......#judgmental are we ?"

I can understand it taking forever to get prego. Me and my hubby was together (no condom, or anything) for 5 years and still nothing. It took us getting some help from the doc's before we was able to finally get prego. I can also understand you saying that sex with a condom can be boring. I know what you mean about the feel and everything, cause that was the problem with me. So I suggested different types of condoms. Doesn't matter now that your prego but just an idea for after. I'm sorry everyone's attacking you on here. I know how annoying it is. Your just looking to talk/vent but instead almost everyone has something to say about how "stupid this is" or making fun of you saying "it was boring". We all knew what you meant, we're not thick! We all know sex without a condom feel's more enjoyable then sex with. You wasn't saying having safe sex was what was boring, mearly that the sex with the condoms was boring. But to tap on what you actually posted on. Your ready weather you think you are or not. Think about it, as soon as you see that baby your going to love it just as much and you know that hon. Plus look at it this way...since your youngest is still young you wouldn't have to 'start over'. You'll be ok hon   Don't stress and just enjoy the bundle of joy you are going to have hon  

You will be fine I got pregnant with this one when my first dd just turned 6 months. I am now 30 weeks and she is 1 and we are all good!  

<blockquote><b>Quoting M. Johnson:</b>" I can understand it taking forever to get prego. Me and my hubby was together (no condom, or anything) ... [snip!] ... wouldn't have to 'start over'. You'll be ok hon   Don't stress and just enjoy the bundle of joy you are going to have hon   "</blockquote>

Thank you so much .......that's what I needed someone to relate not someone to hate <<<<<haha that rhymes! ..........but I know it will be hard .. I'll get through it I'm sure .....thanks for some reassurance

<blockquote><b>Quoting tjhemmi:</b>" You will be fine I got pregnant with this one when my first dd just turned 6 months. I am now 30 weeks and she is 1 and we are all good!  "</blockquote>



Thanks and good luck .....keep me posted on how it is dealing with two widdle babies at the same time

Of course you will get through, darlin'! Babies are blessings and I know you will love your blessing as much as you love your other two!

Just take a deep breatth and relax. Id say try to plan in advance as bestyou can. I know youre stressed..i have a son that just turned 4into months and im 9only weeks pregnant. We used condoms but i guess anytime you have sex you risking pregnancy. So good luck to you and message me if youd like

I have 4 children oldest being 7 youngest being 9 months we found out a 3wks pregnant that we were expecting baby number 5! We used protection! It broke! Apparently I am Ms. Fertile Mertile! And now we are 15 weeks along. Either way we are excited and happy to be wecoming this baby into our home. Just take a deep breath and calm down. You have been through this 2 times before. Aside from that having children close in age is not bad at all. Good luck! But next time I would think about using some form of birth control and sticking with it if you are unsure if you want anymore children. I however suggest something a little better than condoms due to what has happened to me.