Quoting Buzz and Almond Joys momm:" Now that makes more sense. Being that he is there longer thank your LO means he probably is not even ... [snip!] ... ask me about my son's issues, to me I would rather them ask than make false assumptions. But, not every parent is that way. "

No biggie.

Quoting Mama*AtoZ:" Discipline means teaching and i do believe every child should be taught and given the tools appropriate ... [snip!] ... him as it would prevent true learning from happening, but i teach him everyday how to be behave in the most effective way."

This. Minus the part about my child having a special need (to my knowledge).

On a side note - do you read up on the site ahaparenting.com? Your take on child rearing reminds me of that site quite often. If not check it out - you'd love it.