Quoting Heeeeeey, Sexy lady. ;):" I'm sorry about your marriage. I do agree with this to an extent but I don't feel like she should make ... [snip!] ... not like he can have sexual relationships with another woman through the screen. However, you may be right and I'm wrong. "
Yeah I get that, but in her mind its possible that he is having a sexual relationship... Maybe not physcially. Idk that is what was always so frustrating about my marraige, everyone thought I was crazy because I was upset about him watching porn... But in my mind he was having a sexual relationship with those girls, not physically but deff emotionally. He was more invested in porn than he was in our sex life.... and in the OP she did say that she started letting him watch it cause he was doing it behind her back anyway... bottom line she can't make him do anything, but she can request that he stop doing something that makes her unhappy.
and thanks... Its a shame, I really didn't wanna be another statistic and just another failed marriage... I fought with everything I had and sometimes you just can't go on.. It takes two to fail a marriage.... Live and learn right?