Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:" i hope I get to that point with my BD, because at the moment, I just want to fill a pillowcase full of bars of soap and beat the smurf out of him."Oh it took me a while, and anger management lol.
Quoting Vodka Knockers:" So, BD has been stressing me out just a wee bit since two nights ago. Basically I completely cut ties ... [snip!] ... and ran him over in the parking lot, threw that bitch in reverse and hit him again lmfao. Ah, end rant peacefully and happy."
Quoting Tiff Dodson:" lol so he thinks moving away he dont have to pay for his child? i beileve he still does sounds like he ... [snip!] ... to have a man in thier life that dont want to be a father to them! good luck to you hope he maybe wises up and sees the light."Lol, thanks. But honestly I don't see him changing though, that's just the person he is. And the person I am doesn't associate with people like him lol.
Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:" i hope I get to that point with my BD, because at the moment, I just want to fill a pillowcase full of bars of soap and beat the smurf out of him."
Quoting pitbullprincess:" I hope you stay with this new you you are not his taxi you are not his bank you are not his extra parent ... [snip!] ... court mandated I see so many bad baby mammas and it just hurts me when I see good ones like you trying to do the right thing "It's been one of those situations where we've had a lot of trial and errors, but this has worked best for all of us thus far. Me and him aren't talking so the girlfriend is happy, BD isn't expected to be a father so he's happy, I don't have to deal with either of them so I'm happy, and the grandparents are happy because they will always be able to see LO regardless of what goes on between me and BD.
Quoting CurlyDimpledLunatic!:" good step brothers reference. Also, OP, you have a lot of strength, I don't know that I would ... [snip!] ... that were to ever happen between my husband (the father of my kids) and I.... good for you. Major props, kudos... all that. "I'm pretty proud of myself lol. I've been working really hard on changing a lot of aspects of my life, as well as my attitude and I've made some pretty awesome progress.
Quoting Vodka Knockers:" It's been one of those situations where we've had a lot of trial and errors, but this has worked best ... [snip!] ... of LO's developmental therapies is talking about the possibility of him having Autism and I'm trying to adjust to the idea."