Quoting Trisha Beck:" Trust me I've considered it...but I know it wouldn't work because he never wakes up till just about now(he ... [snip!] ... said I always go along with what he wants because its always his way...I just feel like sometimes he only thinks of himself "
Time to take control of your own life and throw the bag of excuses out the window.
Apply at day cares where you can take you child with you.
Try talking to him but you being so dependent on him isn't helping anything.
Where there's a will there's a way...so decide what you want and make it happen.