re: if someone was missing a limb....

Quoting BeginTheRomance:" You shouldn't feel bad. You're beautiful and have a husband who loves you. You're luckier than most.  "

Quoting Viv, Ev & Gwen ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting *PeanutButter*:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Saffy ... [snip!] ... it upset you. There's plenty of guys who'd date you solely because they have an amputee fetish, which IMO is more insulting."

Quoting Viv, Ev & Gwen ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting *PeanutButter*:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Viv, ... [snip!] ... me for my curves and my personality, so whatever any smurf thinks is irrelevant. I don't carry the hurt feelings with me."

Quoting Viv, Ev & Gwen ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting *PeanutButter*:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Saffy ... [snip!] ... it upset you. There's plenty of guys who'd date you solely because they have an amputee fetish, which IMO is more insulting."

Quoting Viv, Ev & Gwen ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting snglemama:</b>" huh? it's VERY different. I won't date someone ... [snip!] ... and a bad reaction to birth control   I had to diet and run my ass off daily to MAINTAIN a weight of 215 at my largest."

Quoting Jude the Super Kinkster:" It would depend on the limb and why it was missing I guess. If my husband lost a limb now, it would definitely ... [snip!] ... would definitely suck but I would probably stay. And with his current job, the risk of losing a hand/arm isn't that farfetched."

Quoting Jude the Super Kinkster:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Ailey+Lennon+Renner's Mom:</b>" which would you prefer, a ... [snip!] ... due to a GSW"</blockquote> I think I'd prefer a hand/arm just because I think it would be an easier adjustment for him"