Quoting ℳary ℐane:" That's going to bite you in the ass later. I am glad you are working on it! I have no problem saying no. "
Quoting The Doctor:" You're not a jerk. I'd say... if it helps you... pick the things that are really important for you to ... [snip!] ... feel as bad. Also-- it might help if you sit in the dining room with her to eat so she doesn't want to come where you are?"
Quoting Stevah:" true, I should do that, that will help a lot. off to do that now!"
Quoting 'Lil Boo's mommy:" i hate saying no too.. it doesnt help that when i tell her no my dad tells me im being mean and terrible ... [snip!] ... being mean and terrible and i never give her what she wants... -.- my biggest flaw as a mom... i let my kid run all over me."
Quoting Stevah:" we should start a 'say whatever you believe is your biggest flaw as a mom' thread. Some moms just need to get it off their chest."