scared

im only in my 7th week and i only found out last week, and ever since times been going so slow, im too scared to leave my bed, i dont want to lose my baby,

ive had clamydia twice and both times i dont know how long i had it, and every time ive tried in the past for a baby it hasnt happened, i honestly didnt thinkk i could have babies. im so scared i dont want to lose this little miricle, i get bad cramps in my back and shoulders after sitting in front of an electric heater all my life,and it plays up everytime i get up off the floor or low objects and when that happens i go into panic mode, im too scared to even pee becuase i am too scared to find blood, and my doc said i cant have a scan for another 5 weeks, which will be 12 weeks.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Millicent Elizabeth':</b>" im only in my 7th week and i only found out last week, and ever since times been going so slow, im too ... [snip!] ... even pee becuase i am too scared to find blood, and my doc said i cant have a scan for another 5 weeks, which will be 12 weeks."</blockquote>


I'm not trying to be rude, but iv never had an std....so what does chlamydia have to do with you being pregnant?

Well, for a start... You need to pee  

Not peeing can cause UTI's.... But honestly, if you're worried, go to your doctor and speak about. It's not good for you or the baby to be this stressed. Perhaps you could also see a chiropractor about your pain because that can't be comfortable  

Quoting J&T+3:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Millicent Elizabeth':</b>" im only in my 7th week and i only ... [snip!] ... I'm not trying to be rude, but iv never had an std....so what does chlamydia have to do with you being pregnant?"

i think you can lose the baby :/ could be wrong.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♥ axel sean n me:</b>" i think you can lose the baby :/ could be wrong."</blockquote>

Ah huh I see. I might go do some research  

Don't hold your urine! It can cause a UTI which left untreated may cause complications in your pregnancy. If you are not presently chlamydia-free, you need to get that treated as well. Left untreated, it can cause miscarriage and pelvic inflammatory disease.

Try not to worry and relax as much as possible. There's nothing you can really do to prevent a miscarriage, and stressing about it is no good. A stressed mama is a stressed baby. Good luck.

Chlamydia has been shown to make women infertile and I believe it may cause problems once pregnant.

chlamydia if left untreated can attack your fallopian tubes,

I'm sorry you are feeling this way.
I know where you are coming from I have had 3 prior pregnancy losses and every time I go to the bath room I am scared just live as normal trust me laying around worrying about it is just going to make it worse and you don't need to be stressed at this point.
I am currently 10+5 and still going strong so we do have hope  

as for the ultrasound , is there anyway your doc can book you in to get one done , i got one done as i wasn't sure how far along i was , i thought i was only 5 weeks turned out i was 7
so i would just ask to get one done , they can bulk bill you even if your not on a concession card

now for the worried about bleeding , i still worry i think its only a normal thing , so go pee and if you do see blood go to the hospital and they can check you out

there is nothing you can do to stop a miscarriage unfortunately , so there is no use in stressing , just try to relax and enjoy being pregnant

goodluck

Quoting Im watching you:" as for the ultrasound , is there anyway your doc can book you in to get one done , i got one done as ... [snip!] ... to stop a miscarriage unfortunately , so there is no use in stressing , just try to relax and enjoy being pregnant goodluck"

I'm with you, You live in Australia goto your doctor say you had spotting or bad cramping, It's free to have a ultrasound so long as you have a medicare card and healthcare card (well I don't even think you need a medicare card).

Quoting Tweaky rachie:" I'm with you, You live in Australia goto your doctor say you had spotting or bad cramping, It's free ... [snip!] ... have a ultrasound so long as you have a medicare card and healthcare card (well I don't even think you need a medicare card)."

if you go to er and spotting i dont think you need a medicare card and dont have to pay for ultrasound

Quoting ♥ axel sean n me:" if you go to er and spotting i dont think you need a medicare card and dont have to pay for ultrasound"

The beauty of free health cares system  

Quoting Tweaky rachie:" The beauty of free health cares system  "

what healthcare system? medicare?

Quoting ♥ axel sean n me:" what healthcare system? medicare?"

Lol yes Mof it (Unless you have to see a Specialist)