Quoting patty19:" Hello me and my ex bf have been together for five years just now we broke up and its so hard to move ... [snip!] ... again i said cool friends came home heart broken should i be friends? or let it go? Talk to him again? We are both really hurt"
I was in a relationship for 4 years. Engaged for 1 1/2 and then we ended up breaking up. It is indeed the hardest thing to go through when you are with someone that long. Your best bet is to give both of you some time to adjust to everything and try and move on with your life.