Quoting Milk Monster:" It's hard to talk to someone about something you've never experienced. I tried to once. Turns out ... [snip!] ... pretend like her baby never existed and I didn't avoid talking to her or turn my back when she wanted to talk about her baby. "
That's basically what she just told me not too long ago. She said it meant a lot to her that I messaged her and it helped to know she had someone she could talk to. I wish I could be more help. I feel like I should do something about, which is dumb because there's nothing anyone can do. I feel helpless, like there's nothing I can do to help but she said just knowing I'm one of the few people awake this late that she can message if she needs to was help enough. Doesn't feel like enough, though