re: how how how

<blockquote><b>Quoting Loveislouder:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting A❤T=P+[It's a Girl:</b>" Sex is not definitely not a ... [snip!] ... Actually for humans its pretty much up there on the little pyramid thing. right along with food water and sleep...."</blockquote>

Maslows hierarchy

Sex isn't really a need it's more of a want. You need water/food ect to survive, you don't die without sex. Sure it is an important part of a relationship but it's not the be all and end all. People connect in many ways and for some sex is not the most important thing and their relationship can survive without it. It's sad to think some people put sex as the most important thing in a relationship, like what if someone can't have sex for a long period of time due to a medical condition does that mean their relationship is doomed?

You say it's sad that a woman denies a man sex because she doesn't feel like it, so you think she should have sex even she though doesn't want to and even if it puts her in pain (referring to Ashurs mommy being in pain from pregnancy ..."pregnancy doesn't mean an entirely broken body") How is that healthy for a relationship? If anything that would most likely make her resent it/him more which would be detrimental to the relationship. I get doing it sometimes when you don't feel like it because you want to keep your partner happy but if your relationship is strong you should be comfortable enough to not have to do something you don't want to and the other should respect it. if sex will cause someone pain/discomfort I think it's more loving of their partner to wait until they want it/will enjoy it.

Every person/relationship is different though so I get that some might not be able to stay happy without sex, but it is entirely possible for people to stay happy in a sexless relationship.

Quoting Loveislouder:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Asher's mommy [Expecting :</b>" We've come a damn long way ... [snip!] ... it's exceptionally valid. "</blockquote> Eh every psych class I've taken states.sex is a very psychological need...."

You are confusing sex with sexual intimacy. Sex as a physiological need refers to perpetuation of the species. It is sexual intimacy that is a relationship need. Sometimes sexual intimacy includes sex, but not always. It is entirely possible to be intimate with someone without having sex, and yes I do agree intimacy is vital to a marriage. Sexual intimacy can also include hugging, kissing, holding hands, cuddling, and flirting.